Hello! As the title of my post might allude to, by day I’m a woman with a successful corporate career, a thriving social life, largely good healthy habits (we’ll revisit this later), and a decent amount of personal discipline. But, like many who post here, I possess a bit of a darker side behind closed doors. I’ve stayed single for some time because while I have a deep desire to submit, it takes a special type of person to inspire the kind of confidence it requires for me to trust someone in that way to be guided by them.

About me: - average height on the thicker, more muscular side of things * experienced submissive (10 years) * single and open to monogamy or ethical nonmonogamy * nerdy/bookish interests like fantasy novels, card and board games, RPGs * outdoor interests like hiking * gym rat/powerlifter * musical theatre nerd * unusual enjoyment of professional wrestling * left-leaning * lifelong learner * cat mom * just a little spooky * generally eager to please but getting better at setting boundaries * perfectionist streak a mile wide

About you: * similar in age or older than me * professional who has their life mostly together, bonus if you understand the trials and fuckery of corporate America * single or in an open relationship (no one is going to be upset if they find out we’re speaking to one another) * the closer to Pittsburgh, PA the better, but willing to entertain strictly online for the right person * share some common interests, open to conversations that aren’t solely focused on sex/kink * in this for more than just sexy pictures * dedication to fitness/healthy lifestyle and educated on the kind of dedication it takes to maintain that and perform at a high level (bonus if you have a background as a personal trainer or similar)

About the dynamic: * regular check-ins and more or less daily communication, but no expectation of constant contact * generally comfortable and lighthearted, respectful but let’s not take ourselves too seriously * honest and open communication about how things are going * largely rooted in accountability with rewards for compliance and punishment for noncompliance * build over time, let’s get to know one another a bit before we jump straight into things, yes? * kinks: rough sex, spanking, free use, semi-public, anal, blowjobs, facials, being called a slut and knowing you like that about me, orgasm control/denial, toys * limits: bathroom play, blood, incest, furries, vore, tickling, greater physical harm, illegal things

Mainly, I’m looking for an extra layer of accountability from someone with a firm hand who can help add a little spicy motivation to do the things I know I should be doing. If you think that’s something you would find fulfilling to provide, message me with some basic information about yourself and what you found interesting about my post, and let’s discuss further!