First things first: I appreciate you taking the time to read my introduction.
Rather than giving you a lengthy introduction on who I am and what I do, I’d rather tell you what I’m looking for and who I believe would complement me.
I’m in search of a long-term relationship that happens to be kinky. Both parts are important to me, though having a partner who just clicks with me is higher on the list. As such I look for someone who is willing to enter an IRL relationship at some point. As for looks I’d send you a sfw picture if you are interested.
I value communication and intelligence highly. If you like to discuss a wide variety of topics, have your own thoughts and opinions and are not afraid to voice them, you’ll find a good conversation partner in me. I’m willing to discuss basically everything and do so openly and honestly. And I hope you are the same.
If you are independent and work on your own, but also want to let go at times, you will bring out the best in me. I take the reign gladly, but I don’t act as a dictator. Rather I discuss a topic, weigh the options and then make a decision. That’s because I look for my equal outside of the kinky moments. I reject the idea of you submitting to me because you have no choice. If you were fully depended on me, I could never tell if your submission is voluntarily or somewhat forced.
I’m a problem solver and provider by nature. So, while I don’t want you to be depended, you can come to me with any and all problems and I provide a safe haven. I understand that this is a thin line to balance. From experience, however, I know it can work – and it’s amazing when it does.
As a passionate person I look for someone who either matches this trait or takes joy from listening.
I view a bdsm dynamic more as a play than anything else. Regardless what happens in the bedroom, I don’t regard my partner is lower or beneath me. I have about a decade of experience with different forms of kink. My enjoyment comes from having my sub melt. I have some range in what I enjoy and tend to adjust to my partners needs. I’ve been called a pleasure dom or service top and while this is true to an extent, I would not do so myself.
I’ll be the first to admit that casual flirting is not my strong suit. I never got much experience in it since I made my relationships last for years. If you believe that issues are meant to be fixed, we will act in concert in many ways.
Preferences: impact play, (predicament) bondage, light humiliation (positions, body writing…), forced orgasms, occasionally a bit of primal. I enjoy plenty more though I believe this selection gives a good picture.
Limits: blood, scat, public, strong sadism, age play (incl. age regression)