Let's start off with one of the hardest things for people to grasp here. I don't want to just fuck. I want a friendship. I keep blocking people that try to fuck at the start of a conversation. Get to know me. Hang out with me a few times. Then maybe sex. After that, a lot more sex. I don't mind talking about sex. Just stop trying to make it happen in the first few messages. Friendship FIRST. Jeez.

Okay. Not that that's out of the way, a bit about me? Well I have 2 life partners right now. One is purely platonic. The other is romantic and sexual. We all live together. They both know I am here. I am not going behind anyone's back, so please don't come to me if you are. Also, whatever I find here is for myself. Don't expect them to jump into bed just because you and I do.

I love playing videogames and reading. I spend most of my free time alternating between those two activities right now. I love playing Kingdom Hearts, Final Fantasy, Horizon Forbidden West, StarCraft 2, and most other games really.

Recently I have been reading a lot of translated Chinese novels. Douluo Dalu will always hold a special place for me. I also love everything by Tamora Pierce.

I have 5 pets. 2 dogs, 3 cats. I would love more, but my partners keep telling me no. A shame.

Some more vanilla interests are tennis, my bass clarinet, SCA, naps, cuddles, board and card games. I'm sure there are more that are not on this list that just aren't coming to mind right now. I would love to get even more interests. Let me hear some of yours.

Now for some of my less vanilla interests. Just really quick.

Kinky interests: chastity, anal, exhibitionism, giving oral, cei, ruined orgasms

Kinky curiosities: free-use, rope, collar & leash, joi

Kinky limits: scat, blood, pee, diapers

The lists go on, but those can come up as we talk more. Feel free to message me if you want a friend, or a friend with benefits.