Hi! My name is Anthony, and I'm looking for a submissive cis F little, age 20-35, preferably in the southeast US. But I'm also open to anywhere in the US or Canada, and possibly other countries too, if time-zones and logistics won't be too difficult.

I know my post is fairly long; I'm looking to become a long-term to forever daddy/caregiver to a lovely little. Hopefully some reading isn't too much to ask for.

Basic Criteria

My ideal girl is an ABDL (most preferred), or into wetting herself. Accident-prone or even incontinent girls are highly welcome too. Basically, I want a very soggy relationship with a wet girl. And I'd adore having to change lots of wet diapers and/or clothes daily. If any of this resonates with you, maybe I could be your guy.

I also have a physical type in mind. I want you to be shorter than I (I'm 6'). If you're closer to 5', that'd be amazing. I also want you to be smaller than I (I'm 190-200 pounds). If you're small enough to fit in Pullups or Goodnites, that'd be adorably perfect. But, as long as you could comfortably sit in my lap, I'd love that too. And if you have long hair that I could twirl and play with, I'd also adore that.

My ideal dynamic

I'd love a mostly cuddly/gentle dynamic mixed with humiliation depending on your comfort level (to be mostly related to wetting, accidents, diapering, and babying). I'm not a brat tamer, and I'm not looking for any brattiness beyond a little bit every once in a while to mix things up.

I'll want the whole DDlg experience too. Immerse me in everything girly and Disney, and whatever else you're into too. I love stuffies, onesies, baby bottles, and everything else baby- or little-related.

Communication

I try my best to show consistent effort in communication and making time for someone, and want to receive the same effort. If you're not at least decent at conversation, or if you abruptly disappear a lot, or can rarely ever talk for more than a few minutes at a time, or can only talk on weekends but not weekdays too, then we won't get along.

However, curiosity that leads to thoughtful/fun questions could easily win my heart and get me to open up. If you're clingy, I'd wish I could hug you tightly and never let you go (not even to let you pee, haha). And if you slip into baby/little space, I'd encourage you; I'd love baby talk, as long as I can still make out what you're saying.

Connections will start online, but I don't want online-only. I eventually want an offline relationship, hopefully sometime in under a year. I can't give hugs, change diapers, or get wet from your pee only online. Also, if we reach 1 month of talking and there's enough mutual interest, I will want a video call.

To be extra clear, I'm only looking for connections with long-term potential. I'm not here for short-term play, especially if it leads to ghosting in mere days or less. If you have questions about any of my criteria, then please feel free to ask; I'd gladly clarify anything. But if you know you don't meet my criteria, especially regarding communication and long-term connections, then please don't contact me.

I'm NOT interested if you:

1. Are outside my age range or otherwise don't meet the criteria in my first paragraph.
2. Are in a relationship/marriage/dynamic, or poly.
3. Have children, or don't want children at all. (To be clear, I DO want children to be a long-term possibility.)
4. Are in regular contact with an ex.
5. Are not willing to take things at a likely leisurely pace. (DON'T try to pressure me to quickly trust you or to try to build a dynamic within the first week—it won't happen.)
6. Are horny in the first few minutes of messaging me. (I'm kinky and would love to play, but I still expect effort for us to get to know each other first.)
7. Want to call me "daddy" or similar pet names right away. (I want us to develop an emotional connection first before we start using personal pet names.)
8. Have already had offline experiences with a daddy/cg (only if that makes online dynamics unappealing to you).

The above are all scenarios I've dealt with from previous contacts, and I'm tired. I may seem weary and jaded at times, but I promise that under that, my heart still longs to love freely and give my little lots of cuddles every day if we were together for real.

Conclusion

If this post catches your interest, then you may enjoy my other post too, especially if you're a Disney fan, as I hid 30 references to Disney songs. It's basically a much longer version of this post, complete with a story of how I imagine life with the wet little of my dreams may be like.

If I catch your interest, please message or chat me (chat preferred) and share a brief intro about yourself. Tell me about either your first or favorite stuffy too, so I know you've read this (if somehow you don't have any stuffies, that's fine too—just be honest). I won't want to keep conversations on Reddit for long, however. I'll eventually want to move to any other app(s).