I've responded to a few ads recently with little success so I figured I'd post my own ad and see what I get. I'm a 40 year old male Dom who's been interested in kink since I was a teenager. Initially it was just porn that I really enjoyed but as I dug more into it I started playing online, learning more, and discovered I really enjoyed being in control. There's just something about having a sub trust you and want to please you that they would do just about anything because you asked. I think I would classify my Dom style as more of a Daddy Dom since I tend to care about my subs and want them to be successful and be proud of them but I do not do age play and don't like being called daddy.

I am looking for someone who is able to chat sporadically throughout the day as our schedules allow and is interested in slowly giving up control. Some days we might just rant and rave about our jobs or lives and some days you'll be using and abusing your body for my pleasure. In between I enjoy giving tasks and working towards goals we've established. I'm not looking for a supermodel but prefer you be healthy and take care of yourself. I am 5'11, 210lbs, athletic build, and I work out regularly. I have an IRL partner but I don't care what your status is as long as you have time to chat and play.

Kink wise some of the things I enjoy include: orgasm control, forced orgasms, tease and denial, anal training, hidden public, spanking, mild pain, bondage, insertions, nipple play, stretching, humiliation, mild degradation, clothing control, schedule control, predicaments, and permissions. I'm sure I've forgotten something in there but that should give you an idea of what I'm into. I don't expect you to match every single last one but we should have a decent amount in common.

As far as limits go I have no interest in age play, blood, weapons, scat, diapers, illegal, unsafe, multiple subs/Dom's, or anything that just isn't sane to do.

Outside of kink I am a pretty average person. I work a white collar job in the construction industry where I travel a bit. I enjoy cooking, traveling, the outdoors, motorsports, working out (mostly so I can indulge in the food I cook).

If you've made it this far thanks for reading and if you're interested shoot me a message and tell me your favorite flavor if ice cream.