First things first: a bdsm relationship to me does not fundamentally differfrom a romantic relationship; for either to work, two people need to be willing to offer communication, honesty, and genuine care for each other. The bdsm element simply allows for certain desires to be communicated up front, directly, and without shame. I am looking for someone who is equally looking for a long-term partnership and is not hung up on definitions or fixed identities: what two people might become to each other depends for the most on openness, sincerity, and communication.
With this in mind: I am a wm, European, in education and writing, bookish, enjoy reading, introverted, melancholy. Have a lot to give, but also need my solitude.
You: between 38 and 55, and interested in an actual relationship, or at the very least something that has the potential to develop into a genuine, perhaps even deep connection.
If any of this resonates with you, I would feel privileged to hear from you.
Please note:
- I am looking for in person only. That means you should be relatively local (within an hour from DC/Baltimore would be ideal).
- NO chat messages, please, I will not respond.
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