am tired of being in my masculine energy and taking care of myself in every way. I am exhausted. I am in search of a Daddy Dom with substance. I have had negative interactions with younger men, so my age limit of 36 - 45 is just that... a limit for me. I know that I am generalising, but the younger men who have messaged, and there have been quite a few, have no idea what the dynamic is about, and are only looking for the sexual. They do not want to build something. I am looking for conversation, sharing, a nurturing and supportive relationship, and if we hit it off, who is to say we wont travel and explore together.

I want to be upfront to share that I am currently separated, and my divorce is taking some time as we do not live in the same country. We have had no contact over the last 2 years.

I never fully explored this side of me. I am a teacher who is always in control with my students and peers. I need release from that control. I am stern in my classroom and I make a million decisions every day, but outside of my career, I want my Daddy to have that control.

I have a Bachelors (with honours) in Literatures in English and a Masters degree in the same. I am interested in getting additional certification as I am a bit of an overachiever. I am 36, 5' 6", 140 lbs. Small waist, but I have a rotund ass. 34B and perky. Naturally brown curly hair with natural gold highlights. Sun-kissed skinned as I am from and live in the Caribbean. My eyes go from green/grey/brown... no not contacts. My mother is mixed with Carib and Portugese and my father with Indian and African. I am non-smoking and I am looking for the same.

While I can be serious at times, I am goofy and will break out dancing in the middle of a grocery store, BADLY. I am playful, I will tease you, but I will respect your insecurities. I have a smart mouth and lots of attitude and can be very much a brat at times. I can be VERY needy and clingy, so you have to be okay with that. I am not afraid to tell you what I think and I will challenge you.

I do not have children, but I enjoy them. I am single I am not looking for the 1950s dynamic. I am not very good at communicating when something bothers me (it is something I am working on and I am sorry for making your life a bit harder). I do not like confrontation and I tend to avoid it at all costs.

LIMITS:

-scat, blood, FULL bondage (ceiling hooks etc), clamps. Beastiality, underage, Impact play is fine, but no scarring.