So you have the desire, the toys, the space and the consenting other(s)... but it isn't coming together. Maybe you're not confident in your role? Or you get lost in the scene and don't know where to take it? You're not sure why, but the hot atmosphere just left the room...
Maybe you need someone to act as coach or mentor? To help you build confidence and credibility in your kink role? I enjoy helping others plan a scene and can guide you through creating the vibe that you want. Things like tone of voice, leveraging desire, establishing authority, building anticipation, limits, safety and consent, making it fun or dark or both, pre-play prep, introducing new toys and styles of play, maintaining a sub mindset.... etc! There are many factors that can make or break a scene and my goal is to make you aware of them and help you find your own voice, style and confidence.
My involvement could be limited to pre-scene chatting and suggestions, or I could ride along in a scene, or I can top in your scene as a demonstration.
I don't charge, or need to see pics or video.
I do this because I find it hot.
Communication will be online: text or voice based.
Limited to those in existing dynamics - I'm not here to help you find a Dom or sub.
About me. I'm a mature Dom (48) with a wealth of experience both IRL and online. I've explored many aspects of kinky-fuckery but find the sweet spot for me is in DD/lg dynamics. I'm relaxed, inquisitive and easy to talk to. My kinks include edging and denial, toys, impact play, restraints, psychological domination, predicament play, anal play, forced orgasms, gaslighting... and many more. My limits are anything illegal, scat, gore, blood, involvement of non-consenting others.
Hit me up in chat if you're curious :)
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