I’m very diverse in many ways, very successful in life and business. Just moved to Oklahoma and retired early from Public Health, West Coast. As you will see I take things serious and try to be transparent from the start. Very much sexually active and looking for same. I’m older Dominant looking for a IRL submissive.

I am a Dominant personality in all areas in life but also respected and known as Mentor by many. I do come with references, in other words I’m still friends with past relationships but very much single at this time if needed for vetting a safe potential partner. I have evolved over the years...into a much more loving, caring and forgiving parental role (caregiver/mentor) in the past 15 or so years.

I was raised in a 1950 type household where my father and mother were a couple in a D/s relationship. My father taught me from a young age to be successful in business through hard work and life as a Dominant personality. I have been successful my entire life. My younger years were hanging out with kinksters with who my parents were friends. There was nothing monogamous about their relationship and I was raised and loved by various submissive’s that lived or frequently visited our strict household. I do have a need to control, but a true Dominant personality always balances "control" of his submissive partner keeping a directive, to ensure safety and security always and meet the needs and desires of a sexual partner. I care deeply for the physical, mental and emotional well-being of any female partner. I do have a type that I desire and love to mentor. Someone who is either experienced in D/s dynamics or identifies just as a highly sexual female, diversity in sexual dynamics is a huge key to keep both partners satisfied. Distance is not an issue with the right person to meet. Just be serious and not waste my time nor will I waste yours. I can always host; I do own a beautiful 3br, 2 bath home in NE Oklahoma on Ft Gibson Lake (Tulsa Oklahoma)where you could visit or live sometime in the future if you wanted. I'm comfortable in my household or traveling. I own a humble successful but small nationwide A/V business...have a lot of time at home as I can set my own schedule. I’ve been successful in business and investments and retired at an early age. I'm looking for a playful sexually open partner who is seriously looking for a Dynamic with an awesome older, experienced man. I don't do online without the intention of meeting someone in person quickly. I don’t trust online conversations nor do I take anything seriously until I meet someone in person. I’m hands on in mentoring and only work with a motivated and sexually active submissive partner. I am financially secure and independent if that matters to you. I do travel a lot and you can go with me, even when I work. I just returned from Palm Springs CA and the month before I was in Scottsdale AZ for two weeks. I’m preparing for a trip to Monterey Bay for business and pleasure with a layover in Vegas on the return trip. I’m very much monogamous when I’m with someone. I fish, hike, hunt, camp out, ski. I also am self-sufficient and have been taught to live off the land. I possess two Grad Degrees, MPA (The Evergreen State College, Tribal Administration) and MPH (Portland State) and sapiosexual and intelligence and deep intelligent conversations turn me on. Here is an opportunity to live and learn with a caring, loving, compassionate and intelligent/educated and experienced Dominant man where your sexual submission is appreciated… Just moved from a location on West Coast I have lived for over 30 years. My younger submissive partner did not move with me after a 5 year D/s (BDSM) relationship. In other-wards I am 100% single at this stage in my life and never bitter or sad about spending time with a cute, younger sexual partner. Being an older Dominant male and a mentor is tough to find a special woman, let’s just say there’s not a lot of opportunities to find younger submissive’s or play partners who want or play and learn with an older experienced 50 yo man. Somewhere I thought would never be w/o a play partner or submissive... My Assets...I bring to a dynamic…Honest. Patient. Kind. Understanding. Compassionate. Strict. Educator, Leader. Observant. Committed. Knowledgeable. Real. Loving. Caring. Strong. Available. Intelligent. Teacher, Open-minded. Respectful. Dominant, Adventurous. Playful. A DOMINANT ALWAYS...A man’s man. My name is Pete hope we chat sometime.