About You: 30 ideally, confident, experienced, kind, good sense of humor. Gender doesn’t matter to me, attention to detail does. Bonus points if you don’t think sex is the end goal of BDSM, because I’m more interested in the journey to finding a like-minded Dom. Gym-bod not required, but I do ask you have some sort of active hobby that gets you up and moving occasionally! (Yes, walking your dog, wolf, cat, or squirrel counts!)

About Me: 30NB (AFAIB but gender’s weird), short, heavy, wildly sarcastic and snarky, fiercely independent, ace. I have a deep fascination for shibari, and an interest in orgasm control, forced orgasm, dirty talk, and teasing, if we get there. I love me some solid praise, and leave humiliation and degradation at the door. (I have a better list of you’re curious!)

To be honest, I’m something of a porcupine slash black cat. If you’re looking for a feminine, cutesy, bobble-headed sub, I am definitely not your person. My go-to clothing is worn jeans, a faded jacket, and tired old tennies. I don’t own a dress or any kind of makeup, if that gives you any idea of me. I have anxiety around many things, including sex. Please keep that in mind.

I’m looking for a connection – friend before Dom. I want to learn your likes and your dislikes, favorite movies and sex toys and adventures and foods and constellations. I want to ramble to you about my latest hobby, the jewelry I’m working on, the photos I just took, why I love the rain. If you try to control me right off the bat, call me your slut or your whore, thank you for playing! All that means to me is someone didn’t read my full post. You earn my submission in the same way I’ll earn your dominance; we don’t get it simply by existing. But if you get it, I can promise that I’m loyal and I’m patient. I’m also kind to people, animals, and the Universe.

I love animated movies like Up and How to Train Your Dragon, and then others like Pirates of the Caribbean and Lord of the Rings. Music-wise, I listen to country, indie, folk, and classic rock…and I’m sure there are other genres! I make jewelry, bind books, shoot photography, write, canoe, camp, and love road trips!

I’m a nomad, so please don’t stake your hopes and dreams on an in-person meet any time soon. I move often, but I love to text and message and send photos of the amazing places I get to go to and see. I’m currently working at a wilderness-based summer camp, but I’ve also worked at orchards, haunted houses, and horse farms.

If you have strings with someone else, please don’t get me tangled in them. This includes in-the-dark significant others and that person you broke up with three months ago and still kinda love. I don’t care if you’re male, female, somewhere in between, or none of the above (welcome, alien overlords). Be willing to provide proof of existence as a human being, potentially a reference who can reassure me that you do actually exist.  My preferred form of communication is Reddit chat or Discord, though I will consider smoke signals, carrier pigeon, and Enochian sigils carved into walls.

If you message me, please include the word ‘moose’ somewhere in that message (bonus points for an original pun!). I do prefer chats to DMs, but I will look at both, I promise!

Even if you don’t think we’ll click, message me! I love to chat with people from everywhere and all walks of life.

Thanks for reading!