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35 [M4F] #Canada / Anywhere - soft daddy seeking a hand to hold
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ketaminehcl_ is a male age 35 looking for a female in Canada
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Hello, World! My favourite colour is green and I always daydream :).

:: about me ::

I am a 35 year old daddy living in Canada. Although I have many people in my life, most feel like simple acquaintances since the pandemic has ended. I wish I had something so much more. I feel a strong desire to take care of and protect someone I deeply care for. I think there is a chance that I can find what I consider true love.

I will begin by describing my appearance. I have pale skin, green eyes, and silver-touched brown hair. I currently have longer hair but am probably cutting it soon as I usually have it tied up. I usually have a clean-kept beard but occasionally shave. I wear glasses but can still see fine without. I stand at an astonishing 5'7/170cm barefoot and weigh approximately 150-155lbs. I have a well-fit build and prioritise my fitness. I am often well-dressed when I'm out.

Believe it or not, I've been called 'handsome' :). I have plenty of photos to share upon request.

I am healthy and fairly active. I carry no baggage (never married, no kids). I have completed tertiary education and have established a successful career working within the financial sector. I am financially secure and own a house/car.

I enjoy good conversation and wouldn't mind sharing some of my life with someone! I have a bunch of interests; each more introverted than the last:

-- I love listening to (virtually anything) and playing music (on guitar mostly).

-- I sometimes play video games on my PC and switch

-- I am a beginner archer

-- I enjoy reading occasionally; usually comic books

-- I absolutely love sitcoms. Seriously.

-- My favourite movie genres are comedy, science-fiction, and horror

-- I spend a decent amount of time working out because it's apparently getting pretty easy to get gain fat at my age haha

:: what I seek ::

I cannot explain why I am the way that I am. To me, love and need are synonymous. I need to need you as much as I need you to need me. I derive self-worth from what I can give. I derive joy from being given implicit trust & obedience. My life is only bright if I can make yours brighter. To me, this is true love.

I want to protect from harm and guide you through hardship. I want to identify and remove your insecurities and calm your anxieties. In the past, the world has made my heart feel sick; I will never let that happen to you. I want to build you up and watch you glow. I want to see the world try and fail to tear you down. I want to listen to your wildest dreams and make them reality; I know that I can, if you stay by my side.

Together, we are invincible :).

I hold high expectations and will always encourage positive habits/routines such as good health and study within my partner. I set strict but never unreasonable rules & tasks. I naturally assume a caregiver/mentor role while provide real, tangible safety and doting support. I am admittedly a softer dom but strict when necessary and capable of using a strong, stern voice to give direction. I am a hopeless romantic, and thrive off clinginess/neediness. To me, there is no such thing as "too much" affection.

I naturally gravitate toward leadership in all facets of life but experience has taught me compassion and empathy. I am confident and accomplished but past lessons have taught me humility and kindness. I am capable of guiding with a heavy hand but prefer to foster submission through admiration.

I do have a bit of a kinky side but I would love to get to know you before talking about that sort of thing. I am not going to ask you for anything sexual. I need emotional attachment first.

:: about you ::

I am looking for a particular type of girl. I am looking someone to be more than a submissive. I am looking for someone who is ready and willing to follow me on real-world adventures. I am looking for someone ready and willing to start life. I am looking for someone who may one day be my w1fe.

I am looking for someone with perhaps a tiny spark of eccentricity or passion; someone who can add colour to my life and enjoys both simple and complex pleasures. Someone who loves to share their life and craves to indulge in another's.

Age range is not important to me but maturity and independence are. I am emotionally ready for a serious relationship and ask that you are too.

Physically, I am not at all picky about features such as eye colour, hair, or ethnicity. That said, if I am honest, I do have a preference for girls who are less than or equal to my own height/weight. I keep myself fit and am most attracted to girls who try to do the same.

Location-wise, I am ideally looking for someone local to me. However, I am sincerely open to speaking to anyone from anywhere; true love is rare and difficult to find but I am determined and dedicated to the pursuit. I have experience with making a long-distance relationship work and am able and willing to cover relocation if it ever comes time for such things.

:: reaching out ::

I should probably cut myself off here. If you're interested in having a conversation, I do ask that you please provide a bit of an introduction and, if possible, a photo of yourself. The mainly use discord for voice chat.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

(I can get busy sometimes so please forgive any slow responses. I always try to reply to everyone.)

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