I'm about to give up on Reddit and try a dating app, but thought I'd give it one more go.... I have met some good people here and I know there are some good women out there using Reddit, so here are some unorganized thoughts about me and what I seek in a partner.

I'm 50, well educated, C suite job, very demanding and I work to much... perhaps because I don't have that significant other to want to spend time with? I'm Canadian so for you American woman that love a nice smooth soft but firm voice, well I think you will like what I have to say. I'm divorced, I have two children (both girls), 15 and 18. My eldest is attending the university of Toronto in September. My youngest lives in Canada with mom. I'm 6ft tall, 195lbs on my way to 190lbs, fit, athletic build, salt and pepper hair, a short always trimmed beard that I am considering shaving. I played a lots of sports when younger, now its limited to golf and hockey but open to new adventures. I love the outdoors, I love being by the ocean, fireplaces, firepits, and beaches. I don't mind the cold having grown up in Canada but prefer warmer climates. I also love to travel. I don't particularly like the humidity on the east coast. I'm in NY now, I probably need to be here for the next 2 to 3 years but after that can probably move whereever. I've moved around alot and would consider myself a bit of a lone wolf. I have some good friends in Canada that I see a couple times a year but don't have a lot of friend here in NY outside of my workmates. How others would describe me.... confident, intelligent, empathetic, good listener, trustworthy, determined, unwaivering, leader, friend, hardworking, creative, problem solver. I could go on but I don't want to sound like a narcassist... I promise I'm not. I have accomplished a great deal but I have surrounded myself with great people, I am very humble and always give credit to those who deserve it. I think I have a good sense of humor and I'm pretty good at making conversation. More an introverted self reflecting thinker that can live in his own head for hours at a time. I can certainly be an extrovert when life demands it but it does not charge me up. I honestly don't know if I am better paired with an extrovert or introvert, I really think it could be either. Well thats a flavor of who I am minus the kink which we can discuss if you like the vanilla icecream.

What I seek in a woman... intelligence... so sexy! I need to be attracted to my parner physically, I'm very visual in my approach to all things in life. I prefer fit, slender/ athletic builds. Thick/BBW are not good fits for me, sorry! Have self worth, be passionate about something, have a career or job. Be single or at least in the process of separating if in a relationship! I souldn't have to say that but ladies you know what I mean! Be over 30, the closer to my age is probably better as we will have more in common and are at similar places in life. Preferably your kids are grown or nearly grown or you don't have kids...If you are looking to start a family, I'm not your guy!

Obviously I would prefer closer rather than farther, but am open to a bit of distance if there is a genuine connection. I think I have rambled enough for one evening, hopefully I haven't put you to sleep. Your pic for mine, and I would like to exchange pictures early to ensure there is that physical spark. Kinks down the line, but I will say I am a very adaptable Dom that can adjust to my partners needs. After all this dynamic revolves around the submissive not the Dominant, it is she who decides who to submit to.