Hi there, I am looking for a long-term dynamic with a daddy/dom. At the heart of the Daddy/Dom kink for me, is monogamy and care. I want to know that the person I trust enough to engage in this dynamic with, would only want to do it with me. As well, I find TPE and psychological domination very intriguing, but I do not desire to lose my freedom. Those sentiments might possibly be entirely at odds with one another, but I want to be given guidance and to be deeply known, but to also be seen as an individual with my own wants and needs. While I aim to please, I also need to feel respected. I am a deeply sensitive and caring person, and so I need to protect myself in a certain sense, and while I want to be “abused” at times, it needs to stem from a good place. I am not simply looking to have some narcissist tell me that I’m worthless, that does nothing for me.

As well, degrading only goes so far for me.. I love to be humiliated and made to feel inferior at certain times but I do not like to feel that I am actually viewed as less than. I desire an equal partnership with a deeply kinky/ slightly disturbing sexual undertone.

I also do not desire to be a slave in any sense.. I want to serve and please, but I don’t want to be reduced to a “thing” or a fetish.. I want the balance of both degradation and pure praise and worship. Again, I understand how contradictory some of my desires are, but if someone can understand what I need/want, it would be a beautiful thing.. I so often think that BDSM refuses to exist in any gray area, but that’s kind of where most of my desires reside. I like the interplay between Daddy-Master and between degradation-worship and between submission-defiance..

In terms of the Daddy dynamic, I like someone to be in control and someone who know how to get in my head. I love to be a needy little slut, but also a sweet little girl and Daddy’s princess. I need a lot of affection and care, but I also want to be challenged and “abused” at times. In terms of age-play, I tend to naturally regress when I feel safe with a Daddy, but that doesn’t mean I want to act like an actual child, I just tend to speak softer and feel more child-like, but I’m still very much an adult looking to be treated as such..

If you connect with what I said, want to build an actual meaningful connection that doesn’t solely rely on sexuality, then please don’t hesitate to reach out..

Also, for quick reference, I’m a 21y/o college girl, who is a cam model and engages in sex work. I need someone who can be super possessive and controlling but also understands the kind of work I engage in and what that requires of me. I’m pretty and fit and willing to verify myself. In return, I would like someone who is well-kept, kind, and confident, and preferably a bit older than myself.