This is a serious endeavor. This is not a first-come, first-serve personal ad. Take your time in your response please and read through it.

I will start by recommending we exchange photos on here or telegram if physical appearance is of upmost importance to you. I think you will be pleased in my appearance. I am a successful handsome fit gentleman. I know who I am and what I have to offer.

Q&A:

Who do you need?

• 30 - 55
• Aesthetically pleasing with good hygiene
• All body types will be considered as I will know when I see you if I have a natural draw to you or not.
• Open to sexual intimacy, deep emotional intimacy and mental connection. This is about glorious connection for both of us.
• A nice chest or booty. Yes I will want an idea but doesn’t need to be NSFW.
• In the US but open to others depending on availability.
• Confident in appearance and can dress to excite. I enjoy picking out sexy outfits for my partner to wear for me.
• Respectful of boundaries. I will be clear about them and any violation will be a red flag.
• High sex drive. We can discuss what this means to us.
• Mostly a sub or curious about submission but can substitute with eagerness to please *A great communicator who believes in transparency

Note: These are not hard preferences.

Who are you?

I'm a 39-year old Handsome successful white man residing in the central time zone. Aesthetically pleasing, of masculine stature, 6’1" to be precise. 195 lbs, fit, blue eyes, blondish hair and above average in endowment. I workout out six days a week and lead an active lifestyle. Well-mannered, extroverted, and highly educated. Working professional with an insatiable drive to succeed. I have been married 13 years but simply lacking that intimacy on all three levels. I enjoy being active outdoors, traveling, hiking, climbing, live music, cooking, reading, triathlons, and skydiving.

Note: I cannot change some things about myself. If I do not meet your basic requirements, then there is no use reading anything below this line.

Why do you want to have an affair?

I am at a point that I crave deep intimacy but believe I am no longer receiving it on a sexual, emotional or mental level. I don't meet many women organically due to work and social constraints and the taboo nature of being married. I am very kind and passionate but I know my emotions need deep connection for a real relationship. I'm very, highly interested and confident in sex and my abilities. I am needing someone who craves that sexual connection coupled with emotional intimacy and shared interests.

Is this a long term or short term arrangement?

I want a long term relationship. I crave that long lasting deep connection we all know is possible but no longer are receiving. It takes time to develop these things.

Have you done this before?

Yes. I have had both long term in person affairs and online only affairs. They ended due to a variety of reasons but I maintain a hopeless romanticism that someone is out there for me.

Can I have other partners outside of our arrangement?

You obviously are free to do whatever you want with your spouse but if we agree to explore this dynamic I prefer to be exclusive as emotions will be involved and neither of us deserves emotional injuries.

What if I want more than an affair? Something serious like a real relationship?

I am not looking to change my situation due to being a father and financial considerations. I will also never ask you to leave your spouse for me.

Can we meet in person?

I am always open to meeting if the logistics work out. There are certain factors that simply can’t be replicated online only.

What's in it for me?

Emotional connection and someone who cares to get to know you on every level. Strong sexual intimacy - I have a strong libido and am confident in my abilities. Reliability and complete honesty. I want to be your biggest cheerleader and closest confidant.

What else can I expect from you?

*Experience with kink and fetishes and a patient soul * Respect of boundaries * No other sexual partners during our time together. * Sexual libido of 9/10, 10 being the highest. *Sincere interest in you on every single level * High energy and passion *Availability during most hours of the day *Complete respect *Amazing dad jokes

What kind of sexual experiences do I enjoy?

The specific list is quite long so I won’t list them here but know I’m well versed in multiple kinks and taboos. They focus on mutual pleasure and my taking control sexually. I want you to be able to shut your mind off and allow yourself to enjoy the sensations you’ve earned. I love everything from the soft and sensual to the intense and primal. My kink list is pretty exhaustive and am willing to discuss more in detail later. However I also have hard and soft limits like anyone should.

Is there anything else I need to know?

I'm a Dominant and mild sadist with some daddy tendencies(mostly in the caring and emotional realm, not in ageplay). I am an exhibitionist and voyeur. I like to experiment. I'll try almost anything once without putting my health in peril. I don't judge people badly. I expect sincerity and honesty. I believe in open communication. Very little part of our future sexual relationship is non-negotiable but I have hard and soft preferences. I will always respect your choices. Consent is important. Our physical, mental and emotional and psychological well-being always comes first before sex. We will not enter this agreement for only one person's gain. Everything should benefit the both of us.

Please feel free to answer the same questions above.

Should you have any other questions, please compile them first before sending them to me.

Some References/Reviews:

“Best Kisser I’ve ever been with” K

“Opened my mind and body to experiences I never thought would be reality” - Affair partner 2

“He makes me crave him when we aren’t even talking” - Online AP

“Romantic who surprises you behind closed doors” - S

“Kind to strangers and always helpful” - Barista

“Most handsome man I’ve ever seen” - Random super model

“Will blow your mind when he has you alone in the bedroom” - Affair Partner 1

“5/5 stars very good buyer thnk u” - FWB

“Best son a mother could ask for.” - my mother .

Thank you for your interest, if you are interested. I will let you know if the search is over. Again, low effort replies will not be entertained. Please let me know your questions and tell me about yourself and what intrigued you when you message me.