Hey, Hi, Hello!

"I hate the middle, lets skip to the part when you kiss me. I'm tired of waiting, so can we just skip to that part?"

My name is Matt, I'm poly, 29, and chubby from northern Kentucky.

I currently have two solid relationships and im looking for a third. I am married to my primary/nesting partner, we are in a mono-poly dynamic she is aware and approves of me looking for other partners. 2. I am in a relationship with a wonderful women who is also poly and married, her husband and I are her only partners.

• Neither of these partners are/would be involved romantically in any other relationship I have, however they wouldn't mind being amicable/friends/friendly with anyone I'm with, and I'm sure would love to get to know you.

Finding a third would make me feel like I've really rounded things out nicely, found the last piece of a million and one piece puzzle if you will. However. There is no hirarcy here. Each of my partners is treated equally and no one is ever left behind/forgotten about/neglected. I do not dare a whole network of people. I chose to dedicate my time to 2 or 3 solid people at a time. Because of who we are as people, I also ask that you be good with communication and able to openly express yourself

I've been in the lifestyle for a long time, and I've learned a lot, and I'm still learning every day. With That being said, I'm classified as a Caregiver type, maybe a service type, Definitely aim to make others happy before myself. If you are curious about any kink/fetish you are more than welcome to ask.

I have a Dark and Naughty sense of humor. I enjoy Country, Classic Rock, Musicals and Sing Alongs, but really I'll listen to almost anything with a good beat and catchy lyrics. Also enjoy Card Games, Board Games, and Watching Sports. Disney is a huge part of who I am and what I love. Traveling is also something I very much enjoy, whether by road trip, boat, or airplane I love going on adventures. It's not about the destination though, It's about the journey and who you take that journey with. I do not drive due to vision loss from birth, but I still get around really well and am very independent, I just can't drive, but I can fly (what am I, Peter Pan?) or take any other means of travel.

I Had bariatric surgery in February of 2023, so I'm losing weight a bit every day still and i currently have a love hate relationship with food. But overall, I'm a carnivore, I love meat and potatoes, and breakfast food. I quote movies, TV shows, and songs all day long.

Communication, honesty, and Physical touch are some very important things to me. if you're with me, I need the physical touch, but I also need someone who wants the same thing with me, I don't want it to feel forced. I want someone who wants me, wants to be with me, is excited to see me and to be around me. I pride myself on making my partner happy and pleasuring them, both sexually and non-sexually, taking care of my partner makes me happy. I am a very affectionate and caring, nurturing and loving person. I can be a bit stubborn and hard headed too, but I think most of us are that way sometimes. I'm very proud of the things I love and things I have created/done/accomplished. Communication is one of the other biggest things for me. When I'm looking for a relationship I work best with someone who is laid-back, understanding, and easy to talk to, level headed if you will. I do not work well if anytime we have an issue, fight, disagreement the other person completely shut down, run away, or attack instead of just communicating and talking to me.

It's sad that I have to say this. Effort is matched. I'll put in what you put out. My point is. If I send you a while ass paragraph introducing myself or whatever and you reply with "hi" or "hello" and NOTHING else. I'm done. Effort is not freater than or less than to make a connection. Effort Is equal to, to make a connection.

"I'VE GOT A JAR OF DIRT, I'VE GOT A JAR OF DIRT!"

So, please shoot me a message, lets talk and see what happens, maybe we'll go on an adventure together.

"Well, what do you say we get thrown out of an applebee's?"