I’m into pleasing you while being denied the same in return.

I love a huge pleasure gap, where we spend an hour or two with me making you feel good in whatever way you enjoy most, leaving me wanting afterward. I’m open to the exact details since I want to please how you like it, whether it’s oral, fingering, toys, intercourse, or all of the above.

I will admit that I love oral and have frequently spent a couple of hours down there without a break. But I just love to worship a pussy. If you want a dildo and vibrator, I’m just happy to please you. If you want me to use my finger and play with your clit, I’m there. Get on top and ride me while telling me I can’t cum, I’m hard and ready to go.

I love it when you tell me I don’t get to cum; it makes me instantly harder. I love complete denial, being edged, and ruined orgasms. And I’m very into it if you tease me and then ruin my orgasm after promising me a great one.

Denial and ruined orgasms help keep me constantly aroused which just makes me want to put all that built-up erotic energy into pleasing you even more

I’m not really into humiliation or sisifcation, but I love being teased about not getting to cum like you. I'm open to a number of BDSM dynamics.

I’m an experienced and talented pleaser who you can tell to pleasure you and then just lie back and enjoy. I'll do everything I can to fulfill your wishes. I’m intuitive and will find new and better ways to please you as time goes on. I listen to you and your body and strive to improve every time. At the same time, I LOVE instruction and feedback and bring very little ego to the bedroom. My job, my purpose, is to please you, so any time you have notes, I’m eager to hear them.

I have experience with all of this, and I know my focus on pleasing you won’t diminish over time. In fact, I’ve found the longer I get to please someone, the more turned on it gets me.

Outside the bedroom, I’m an adventurous person. I love to travel and explore new things. I’m very active in the general sex-positive community. I’m told I’m attractive and I’m in decent shape. I’m respectful, easygoing, and fun. I actively eschew toxic masculinity and have done a lot of work on myself and constantly strive to be a better person.

My ideal partner would be independent, active, and generally positive. Maybe you’re new to the idea of having a partner who’s focused on your pleasure, or you may already know that’s exactly what you want. Either way, let's create a unique dynamic that works for us.

I’m definitely submissive-leaning, and tend to follow my partner’s lead. If you’re very dominant, I’ll generally be very submissive. If you're not yet comfortable being dominant, you can just think of me as a lover who is always eager to please you. I also know how to lead when appropriate. Just because I’m submissive doesn’t mean you constantly need to dominate (unless you want to!)

DM me and let’s talk.

PLEASE: Be local or visit the Bay Area a lot. I’m only interested in in-person.

Also: NO PROS, please. I don’t have anything against pro-Dommes, but it’s not the dynamic I’m looking for.

Thanks, and I look forward to learning just how I can please you.