43 Male, athletic / poly / open / partnered

5 years experience as a Dom and switch. 5’11, 175lb, green eyes, soft lips, nice smile. College educated. Steady, predictable, warm

My long term sub of 2 years has moved away, and I’m looking for a sub or switch to replace that lost intimacy, passion, and trusting bond with. I seek occasional non-monogamous play with some amount of communication between sessions. Ongoing care and affection without commitment.

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I crave and love all forms of power exchange, and the way in which it greatly intensifies intimacy and passion.

I am a sweet mix of sensual and intense, playing from a primal place of lust, and at my core projecting a soft Daddy Dom side.

I am an empathetic and caring soul who loves the safe, sane exploration of human vulnerability, helplessness, pain, and pleasure. I also enjoy switching, but only with those who are excited doing so.

“I attach my soft ankle and wrist cuffs to your naked body. I secure you spread-eagle, and you wait, exposed and vulnerable, completely defenseless, as I prepare to take your helpless body on an erotic journey…”

I like using my body and hands, I like nipping, holding down, spanking. I like letting my inner lustful urges free.

I enjoy intense play and pushing a sub to her limits, if she enjoys or wants to explore intensity.

I am turned on watching her back arching as she cries out into her gag and she struggles as I apply pain carefully and incrementally to the most sensitive and private parts of her body. I like watching her muscles tense up, her body under my control. Her fear, not knowing what is coming next while bound and blindfolded.

But I also enjoy soft, tender, sensual erotic play. Deep intimacy and passion. Soft care and caring touches. I have had many strong and incredible women in my life over the years, and care, respect, and protection are second nature to me. I love mixing soft and rough together in delicious ways. Most of all, trust is the currency of power exchange, and I enjoy that aspect perhaps more than any other.

As far as my kinks: biting, kissing, cuddling, sensual, impact, clamps, edging, multiple orgasm play, and more. I have lots of experience w electro play and have many electro toys that I can use for pleasure... or pain. Women in spandex, leather leggings, athletic clothes, or latex make me melt.

Every dynamic or play partnership or scene is different, and I take time to understand what turns you on -- what YOU want -- what your fantasies are, and what you need both physically and emotionally to be able to be yourself. I have had subs where we have focused entirely on sensual bliss, and others where we have engaged in intense, painful interrogation scenes. Tell me what you need.

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Strict adherent to bdsm best practices / limits / safewords / consent / safe play. I am tested regularly and safe sex is a must.

I seek non-monog connections with the goal of occasional, ongoing play. Face pics once connected. I am partnered / open, poly, ENM, and only play solo.