I am a 35 year old living in Dublin,Ireland, originally from somewhere else in Europe.

About me: I’m 5’10, blond, I would define me as quiet and nerdy introvert, into History, indie videogames, board games, hiking, reading, films, museums and galleries, cafes, Formula 1, self-development. I work in banking. I’m not the type that goes to pubs or clubbing. I’m more the ‘stay at home doing something’ type but I also like someone who pushes me a bit to travel, experience new things and get out of the routine. I’m caring and affectionate, cuddly and I’ve been told I’m very considerate towards other. I’m someone who knows what he likes and wants.

What I look for: I look for someone late-20s to early 30s, non-smoker, preferably an introvert too, who likes gaming, or indoor activities and shares common interests, but also wants to push me with outdoors activities beyond my comfort zone. I’m looking primarily for a stable relationship with good chemistry between us, sex-positive, caring and affectionate. I’ve tended to be more of a caregiver in the past, so ideally you are the submissive and kind type but kink doesn’t define your whole self. You’d like to feel owned and safe. The click in our personalities must come from different sources. We can discuss more about kink or dynamics in private.

I like someone who at this stage in life has clear ideas on what she likes and wants, looks for a stable and committed relationship, communicative, considerate and loving. It's important that we share common views or personality traits or at least that we feel comfortable with each other. Communication is important and I want to understand they way you think and what's important for you. I consider relocation in the future so if that works for you or you work remotely, even better.

To note: I’d like kids some day.

Chat (preferred) or DM for a while (both vanilla and kink) before we discuss moving to another platform. Your pic gets mine