I don't know what you want me to say. I shouldn't have to sell myself and 'how well' I understand BDSM and how safe you're going to be and that I will respect your boundaries and try to convince you that I'm a good person or what kinks we're going to fulfill. Those things are basic standards of behavior. That means that you can assume that those are going to be present in the dynamic without even talking about them. The only thing we should be talking about is how we're going to fulfill those standards. That's it.

You're not worth my time if you are and I'm not looking for someone who:

• Does not possess a feminine body. It's okay if you were assigned male at birth. Your mind doesn't matter. I will mold you into what I want to be anyway.
• Wants to 'chat' and fantasize without really doing anything. If talking about things would be useful, we'd all be gods;
• Who doesn't have their life together emotionally, and by extension;
  • Wants to use me for their own gain, i.e.:
    • Because of them not having their life together wants me to 'dominate' them into doing things they they want themselves, for their own benefit. Say things like 'making you go to the gym' or 'making you fuck a lot of men because I have a fantasy of being a whore but I'm too much of a wuss to actually do it or 'make you clean their room' and call yourself a brat. Shame on you. You're selfish and don't understand what BDSM is.
• Doesn't immediately want to jump into the dynamic and talk and act like the dynamic. I.e. I don't want someone who 'wants to get to know me'. That will happen over time anyway, and it's a cop out for people who are slow in understanding if they like you or don't want to just be honest and upfront and say no to me to 'save' my feelings.
• Doesn't put effort into the relationship. If I have to pull interaction from you, i.e. I have to constantly nag you to spend time with me, then you're just absent-minded and I can't do anything with you. It's different if you just don't have time. In that case, we're going to schedule specific times where we can spend time together.
• Someone who 'plays' the role of submissive. This is very important. If you're the kind of person who 'roleplays' being submissive, like someone who might 'roleplay' impact play by being tapped lightly on the face, then you're not a submissive and I don't want you. I am looking for the genuine submissives who crave and need to feel submissive as much as they need to breathe.

This relationship will still be mutually beneficial. You will get things from it, and I will get things from it. Those things will be that you'll be dominated, which is what you want from this. You want to feel submissive first and foremost, and the rest doesn't matter. Kinks, the way I look, your preferences, everything else is second to you feeling submissive. I will provide you with that first and foremost, and then when I have that locked down, I will use my dominance and power over you to control the whole of the relationship to train, pleasure, punish and command you into whatever I need from you. You do not get to use your preferences as a bargaining tool because your need for submission is the main exchange. Once I have that, your preferences wouldn't matter anyway.

On the other hand, I will require pictures to see if I find you physically attractive. I know it's not a balanced relationship where you don't get to enforce your preferences and I do, but that's the nature of BDSM and 'owning' property, which is what you'll be. If you don't like that fact, you can't be my submissive, and I'm suspecting you don't really like imbalanced relationships, which is what a BDSM relationship is and you don't really want domination in your life. I can't help you if this is the case. Besides, I'm probably going to be attracted to you if you're anywhere remotely average or attractive.

If you have any comments about how you don't like anything I wrote here, you can keep them to yourself. It just means I triggered your ego, and this isn't going to work. In fact, I'm not looking for any kind of messages at all, unless it's a serious message about becoming my submissive.

So, if you are a person with genuine submissive needs, and you fit my criteria, then you can send me a message with who you are (age, genitals, location, kinks) and I'll take over from there.