I absolutely love everything to do with power exchange and “abuse.” I want you to own and abuse me. I want you to make me suffer for your amusement and then tell me I’m a good boy for taking the abuse for you. I want you to make me take your cock in whatever way you decide, even if it hurts me, because you own me. I want you to control most aspects of my life, and I want to be kept horny and only be allowed to cum when you let me once in a while. I also want to build a strong relationship so that we both feel enough safety and trust to talk about anything with each other, and I want to go do “normal” fun things with you with the knowledge that even though we look like two loving partners, you actually own me and I’m your slut.

Here’s an example of the combination of power exchange and abuse that I really like: I love sucking cock while wearing a shock collar. Having a shock collar strapped tight so that the prongs are pushed into my ass or my pussy and there’s no way to get away from it, no matter how much I squirm and no matter how much it hurts. Getting zapped as punishment for letting your cock slip out of my mouth, or you holding down the button so that I feel the stinging in my holes until you’re satisfied with how deep I swallow your cock and you release the button and tell me I’m a good boy. Or even just you hitting the button for your own fun, varying the intensity and duration to feel how it makes me tense up or moan on your dick filling my mouth. Even better if my hands are cuffed behind my back, out of the way so that I can focus solely on worshipping your cock with my mouth.

I’m into a lot. I’m especially interested in power exchange (obviously), bondage, chastity/orgasm control, CNC (I’m not huge into anal, but I love having my ass “raped”), humiliation, electro play, impact play, and rough body play (manhandling, slapping, shoving, etc.). I’m willing to try almost anything once to see what it’s like. And I really love sucking cock.

I enjoy breathplay and watersports as well, but those things would be off limits at first until we get more comfortable with each other. I love the idea of having to drink my Owner’s piss for his convenience though, and I love the fear and panic from having my breathing restricted by someone.

My limits are needles, blood, scat, sounding, and anything illegal.

I’m 5’4” and weigh about 175 lbs. I prefer guys who are bigger than me, but it’s not a requirement. I really enjoy bear-ish guys, but overall personality and intelligence are much more important than physical attributes.

I’m ideally looking for a Dom/Master for an in-person D/s or M/s dynamic. I’d like to get to know someone online for a bit before meeting. I’m also open to online dynamics or play, but I really prefer in-person. I’m looking for someone to be both a boyfriend and a Dom/Master. I am currently in SE Ohio, but I live fulltime in an RV and I will be traveling out west to California soon and will probably be there for a while. Most likely San Francisco, Bakersfield, or LA area, but not 100% sure yet. My living situation is flexible, I work remotely, and I’m not tied down to any particular place.

I’m looking for a guy between the ages of 21-ish and 45-ish. I value kindness, compassion, intelligence, creativity, and honesty in a partner. A sense of humor is a must. I am looking for someone who is calm and patient. I need someone who is available for frequent communication and who can spend lots of time together.

I understand that people have to be discrete sometimes, but I do not have the space to handle a partner who is hiding their sexuality/kinks, so I ask that you not contact me if you consider yourself discrete in that way.

We are not going to get along if you are conservative.