Being dominated is a two way street. It requires your partner to assert himself over you mentally and physically. It also requires you to submit to it.
First: I'm white, 34, 6'1, muscular and hung.
You submitting to me starts with both respect and discipline, and ends with full physical domination. You cannot be dominated by someone you don't respect. Respect lays the groundwork for elevated status in a relationship, whether you like the person or not (think of the the boss that annoys you, but you still defer to him because of status and respect). Respect with us starts mentally. Intellectual conversation, but also how I treat you. I open the door for you, guide you to your seat at the restaurant with my hand on the small of your back, I order for you....I treat you like a woman. It continues with your physical attraction to me.
Next, you will naturally test me, maybe you'll be late or try and blow me off. This will be corrected, and will end up with you over my knee, with your skirt hiked up and your panties down. I will give you hard and firm spanks, but rotate with rubbing your clit until you're soaking wet begging me to fuck you. If you defer to me and show real submission, I'll reward you.
Things can be elevated to rope play, or me fucking you with a belt around your neck when trust is built, just a few ideas ;).
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