Hey,

So this might seem strange, considering this is a personals page and all, but I just thought I’d put it out there on the off chance somebody needed to hear it — if you’re new to BDSM and D/s dynamics and you’re feeling frazzled, overwhelmed or shy about finding the words, I want you to know that if you feel comfortable, I would be happy to help talk kink or answer questions, help ease your mind, no matter if that’s just one question on your mind or several.

I know when I started I was a nervous wreck. I knew no one in the lifestyle and if I did, I wouldn’t know where to begin. I had so many questions but zero friends to ask - and I felt anxious and lost and mad.

Now that I’m a little more knowledgable and have been in this lifestyle since my twenties, I thought I’d help someone like me, someone confused, afraid for their mental health, or just someone that needs to hear they’re not wrong. Maybe you want to get to know me before you ask. I don’t mind. I am more than happy to chat. I enjoy talking D/s.

So hey, if you’re still here, here is a little more about me —

I’m a Dominant that hails from Melbourne, Australia. I’ve been in the lifestyle since I was in my teens, really, but it would take a while for me to come to terms with that side of myself and my anxiety to explore. I’m a bit of a mix of things as a Dom — A primal, a Master, a Daddy at times. I tend to shift between those moods. Generally I like a balance between these aspects. I like softness, collars and watching TV together, but also exploring harder stuff. Orgasm denial. Degradation. Master / slave dynamics. Consensual Non-Consent.

Outside of kink I’m a bit of an introvert. I like my writing time and reading time. Hanging at home with my dogs. I’m pretty quiet and shy. I’m in my element drinking coffee and reading a book under the covers at home. At peace being naked out in the woods. Just happy to have a few friends rather then a gazillion.

I’m going to stop this novel here. If you have any questions about anything I’ve raised, I am a message away. Please don’t hesitate. It doesn’t matter how many questions you have or how much experience you have and there is no time limit to the offer. If you want, when you’re ready, I’m around.