Hi there! I'm a dom guy with a big orgasm control kink, looking for some sort of long term connection. In general, the most important part of a kinky relationship for me fundamentally is helping the other person get off, as its a big part of the way that I connect with someone both emotionally and sexually

The title is a lot, and isn't where I'd start (though if you do find it hot, we can definitely chat), but I'd love to work up to something like this once there's some trust going. I've done it once before in a relationship, where it was intended as a permanent giving up control, and it was just so, so intensely hot. There'll always just be the simple fact between us that you're never, ever going to cum ever again on your own - you never get to pick and choose your orgasms, its always up to me to edge you, and tease you, and let you cum if I want. I'd like to be able to casually give you a quick orgasm here and there in the middle of a conversation, and carry on gaming or chatting with you like nothing has really happened. It'll just be totally normal

In general, I don't tend to go into edging someone for multiple days, so you'll get to cum a lot. It just won't be your choice if and when it happens. That said I take 'no'/consent very seriously, so unless its massively prediscussed and preagreed, I will never push you towards getting off if you can't

I'm very much on the soft dom side of things. I do enjoy the rougher aspects, but choking, face slapping, and any kind of violence/Dubcon is a non

Otherwise I'm a relaxed guy who loves chatting about life, politics, the universe and everything otherwise. If you like rimworld multiplayer/stardew valley and those kinds of games then we'll probably get on great there too. I'm also a huge scifi fan (and a giant space nerd), so feel free to ask me about any of that and get to know me generally! I'm a total open book, wow that was a bad joke

If the title is a bit much for you but you still like my general vibe, it is optional, so I'd still like to get to know you. I've got tonnes more information in my history, and a full kinklist too

Kinks: You having a nice time, orgasm control, edging, spanking, thigh humping, degradation/praise, dirty talk, good conversation (is that a kink?), girls watching porn

Limits: Noncon, cheating, people with partners (even if they know), Daddy, breeding