What i'm looking for: i am specifically hoping to find a sadistic Caregiver type to become friends with first and play with longterm online. Looking for someone who is patient and kind, but finds joy in giving physical pain. A nice mean man who will be mean when i need it and super nice when i need it, and most importantly care about me as a person before my kinks. Definitely looking for someone over 30, if not older than i am. It is fine if you are married, but only if your spouse is okay with it - i am not okay with being the secret other woman. Most, if not all, communication would be via text - especially as we get to know each other slowly - and preferred to be over discord. Experience is not necessary, just patience and passion.

Who i am in meatspace: i'm married and my spouse is encouraging of my online play time. i'm a professional woman in the technology industry with a fairly high stress job. i love video games and TV outside of work. i ADORE dad jokes, and love memes. i'm newly a mom and absolutely love that. I have two puppies and a kitty. My family come first, but i have extra time and can message fairly often.

Who i am kink wise: i am a little, a masochist and a pet, along with other types of dynamics on the submissive side which help me explore my light and dark fantasies. i make audio porn (i know this is a weird and hard ask, but i ask that you don't look at it on my profile until we get to know each other, as it will really give away a lot of the getting to know each other parts from my side). Given that fact, i'm surprisingly shy when it comes to meeting new people. However, i like to think that i open up when i'm comfy. i have a lot of kinks, and i enjoy talking about them and practicing what of them i can. Sometimes, pain gives me the giggles, beware! i like to explore the kinks of others in case i'm missing out on something, and also because, at my core, i like to please others in whatever ways i can.

What i ask you to please do if you are interested: Please direct message me (not chat) and tell me your favorite dad joke and age and anything else you'd like to tell me.

i can't wait to hear from you and hope you have a super awesome weekend! Thanks for reading!