As the title suggests, I'm looking to build a dynamic that focuses on building something genuine between us that involves our kinky pleasures, and doesn't rely on it entirely.

A bit about myself: I'm 26 and live in England, I'm 5'10", wear glasses, have brown hair, and eyes. I have an athletic build and like to take care of myself in general.

I'm a writer for a living, have previously coached boxing, worked in a homeless shelter, as a chef, and also enjoy archery from time to time. I also play quite a few video games, and would absolutely love to find a few that we can spend some time together in!

The Kinky Side: I've been a dominant for around 8 years now, and would say that it's something that comes naturally to me.

While I don't begrudge the sweeter moments, as an evening spent cuddling, snuggling and/or huddling is an evening well-spent, I definitely prefer the rougher side of things. Impact play, Choking, Spanking, Rough Sex, Bondage, Teasing, and even CNC, are large parts of what I enjoy.

I'd describe my style as being a dominant presence in your life, someone you can lean on when the need arises, but also someone that can hold you firmly in place as the pleasures overtake you.

So who are you? Well while I was hoping you could tell me that, I suppose I can fill in a few details for you.

You're someone that ideally has an idea of what they enjoy or what you want to learn and experience, both in a kinky and lifestyle sense. It's also important that you can enjoy the more wholesome and fun evenings that are sure to come alongside the kinkier ones.

I'd also like to see us finding a few games we can play together, even if it means that I put you into unpaid work on our Stardew farm!

While I would love to say that this is an exhaustive list that perfectly captures who I am and what I want, posts like this can never properly portray a person. Still, if the idea of what I've detailed here interests you, then feel free to come and introduce yourself in DMs! I'll be looking forward to it.