**what i'm looking for** a partner, a play partner, someone who wants to go on vanilla dates with mainly kinky endings. in the end, i want a relationship - but i do believe in chatting, exploring, and not jumping to conclusions. i'm a mostly sub guy interested in a woman who is interested in play mostly as a domme. i love all sorts of interactions tbh - but - like a week ago, i met a woman at a munch who just looked at me as a sub and i felt so incredibly seen. i want that. but, more. a woman who looks at me, and sees me.
**what i'm not looking for** a kink dispenser. i know that's sort of a habit. i do have a list of kinks and fetishes i like! they're in my profile. but, almost all of them depend primarily on my partner and what she's interested in. i don't need all of them - and i'm happy to try ones i never have before. or try ones again with new energy. i'm also not looking for findom at all. i'm not looking for an FLR either, but i'm not quite opposed...though i do have my own thoughts and expectations. i expect a partnership more than anything.
**about me** a bunch in my profile. i read a lot. somewhat nerdy. do well with things i try to. travel a good amount. well into travel hacks of various sorts. i cook. i take care of my dog. i have some nice wines to try. i run and jump rope and yoga.
**about you** you like dogs. you live in NYC, or are here often. you like to drink wine and watch TV sometimes. we can chat about books. we can cuddle. really only the first 2 things are blockers. the others just sound great to do...
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