I live in a total kink deadzone. Unless you swing, there's tons of that here. Not my cup of tea, plus most of it is couples swaps. And even then, that would just be for fun. I want to build something. Lasting. My next issue is it seems almost everyone here has kids. For a small city approaching 100k this leaves my options for anything slim. I may very well sell the house and move away again (lived on the west coast and NYC previously), but for the sake of my aging dog I'd like to let her live out the remainder of her life with lots of indoor space and a big yard. Maybe reddit can help me find someone willing to not only submit to ME, but also submit to small city life, at least for a few years.

As my title says I'm 36. White male. Nothing special to look at, and I take terrible pics which doesn't help (wtf do I do with my hands, how much smile is too much?). I got big blue/green eyes. I'm tall-ish (yes over 6 feet), and I have a very plain fashion sense (please help me here). I work from home for a government contractor. I have my struggles like anyone else (but unlike most the VA pays me for them), but I am indeed working on them and they're nothing too bad. As a government contract you can imagine, I don't actually work a lot. It's all a scam I think, but the checks still come so I don't say anything.

In my copious amounts of free time I like to nap (on account of depression lol), take my dog for long walks, volunteer at local animal shelters, try new cultural foods, participate in local car shows, watch entirely too much tv, doomscroll reddit, play video games, take day trips to local larger cities, visit friends, spend time with my family (another part of why I came back), go to museums, zoos, aquariums, or anything that I can learn from. I'm pretty much willing to try almost anything once though I tend to not be a super big fan of large packed in crowds. So things like concerts, while I have attended, aren't my favorite but I'm willing to suffer through occasionally.

As far as kink I have things I like, things I'd be happy to do but aren't my top favorites (what is this myspace?), and like everyone else, no nos.

loves

CNC, deep throating, face fucking, wardrobe control, bondage, choking

likes

Public play, TPE, soft-dom, 1950s housewife (legit could not work for all I care)

idk maybe

Humiliation, impact play, raceplay? (IDK I'd probably be bad at it at first but I'd try)

no thanks, but also won't kink shame

Age play, scat, piss, vomit, feet, food, blood, poly/sharing/swaps

Obviously there's hundreds more but I'm not going to list them all. They tend to be similar in style so that list should give you a feel. If you're interested shoot me a DM or chat. I'm a pretty avid texter so I'm quick on my replies. I do ask that you be US based though. Thanks for your time.