Unfortunately, I have to make another one of these posts, so I'm going to be a little bit dry as I'm looking for someone who fits this outline for the most part. A lot of people on here apparently treat things like a fling. It's not. It's a lifestyle. And I'm looking for a female who CRAVES dominance.

I'm 34, I've been a Dom for 13 years, and I take it seriously. I'm 5'9, 180 lbs, brown hair, green eyes, glasses. I have a bit of a dad bod. I'm also married but polyamorous. I'm totally a giver when it comes to pleasure, though I may change my mind on some things if my mood changes.

My Requirements

I expect to hear from you every day. If not, talk to me. I want to establish SOLID communication if we click. I also work from home so I'm very available, the question is, are you?

I don't want a 24/7 lifestyle, I want that level of dedication, but I'm fine with naturally talking dirty and naturally talking about day-to-day depending on our schedules. I can be flexible, but I expect you to want to work with me.

I require my girls to do tasks. Frequently, I will give you something to do, and you will get it done. This can range from all sorts of things, I may have you show me some of your toys, show me how wet I made you, take a quiz or anything really I desire. I want to see how well you obey and follow directions.

I downloaded the app obedience and I'd like to try that out as well, so I prefer you be someone dedicated and willing to try something more regimented.

What I'm seeking

• Dedication - you should be able to message every day, if you can't, then tell me why. I don't see a reason why this is hard.

• Loyalty

• Submissiveness - (you wouldn't think I'd have to ask for this, but you'd be wrong)

• Youth - I want a submissive who is younger - that's a dealbreaker. I prefer it for the dynamic, but I've trained countless people over the years, so it also helps to undo what a lot of no lifestyler people don't do when it comes to training.

• In person relationship - I don't mind you being remote, at first, but I would like to eventually get to a point where we start doing video calls and visits, I don't intend to keep this solely online.

• More - I'll add to this as time goes on. But for now, let's talk about what I want from you and what you can give.

My Kinks

I'm into the rougher side of things. I like CNC/Free Use/Non-Con, bondage (light and heavy), impact play, orgasm denial/control, sensory play, breath play (choking, gagging), rope play, exhibitionism, include the word bound in your message to show me you read this, humiliation, degradation, marking (Im a biter and I bite hard), sleep play, there's so much more. Just ask, and I'll provide my bdsm test if you'd like to see it.

My Limits

I don't have many, but here are my dealbreakers: femdom (only one of us is dominant and that's me), latex, animal, ageplay, toilet stuff.

Want some bonus points ?

• Big bonus points if you are from Texas or nearby states

• Bonus points if you are a female of color. (I personally prefer women who are POC over white girls, but white girls are free to apply).

Half asses messages will be blocked. DO NOT send me "33 f saw your post".