Long post ahead #sorrynotsorry Here it goes...

TL;DR: I'm a creative, nerdy, and fun Submissive in the SoCal area, looking for a local Dom who is equally driven in life and looking to build a strong D/s dynamic that challenges his Sub in a loving, long-term kinky relationship. \*Story in my profile is a for realsies example of my submissiveness in action***

Oh, and I hope you love baked goods.

WHO IS SHE?

Personality - Sassy, classy, and a bit smart-assy! A good mixture of ambition, kindness, humor (DAD JOOOOKES), quirky, and just the right amount of cheekiness. I've been described as playful, big hearted, witty, curious, easy to talk to and a good listener, patient, open-minded... and MORE! Acts of Service is my love language and what drives my Submissiveness. I’m enthusiastically giving and I aim to please! I only want to care for and submit to my Dom.

Physically - I'm 35, 5’1/136lbs, single, Latina, brown eyes, curly hair that is currently purple, active but love PIZZA!, non-smoker, clean/DDF. Would like to verify each other with photos early on. And I’m originally from Texas, but sadly lack the accent.

Interests - Mostly a homebody or a small group hangs kind of person. Some of my hobbies include: baking (username checks out), taking pottery classes, exploring new restaurants around LA, going to live sporting events, concerts, traveling, reading, and adventuring with friends. I’m also a life-long student and enjoy learning new hobbies or just diving into new subjects of interest.

Life Stuff - I have a job that I love in an industry I’m passionate about. Definitely goal-oriented. I live in my own place (no roommates except for my cat and dog, Chips and Queso) and I am financially independent. I’m the kind of person who is always there for their loved ones and will do the same for my Dom. I am in a leadership position in my career and my submissiveness helps me wind down and come back to myself. My ADHD is exacerbated when I'm highly stressed and I will turn to my Dom to guide me back to myself. This is sometimes expressed as being a little Bratty. It's infinitely rewarding when I've built trust with someone and have a safe space to truly submit to them. Making my Dom happy, makes me happy :)

WHAT ABOUT YOU?

Basic Stats: Looking for someone around my age (30-40ish), physically active, in/around the Los Angeles area.

Details: Let's be a kinky power couple together! I'm in a place of intention in my life and actively looking for a life partnership with a Dom.I’m in therapy and tend to my mental health, as I feel it is the foundation of being my best self for my partner and I prefer that they are doing the same. I want to build a life with my partner around shared values, goals, and grow together. Be a power couple kicking ass and living a life we've proudly built together. I want a mix of vanilla and the added adventure (and freedom) of kink. Oh, and lots of laughter :)I prefer a Dom who is stern, but nurturing, and will always keep my best interests in mind. Communication is KEY. I've had one too many experiences of having my trust betrayed and am REALLY trying to avoid that. I’ve mostly maintained a D/s dynamic only in the bedroom, but am wanting to creating 24/7 dynamic in my daily life.

What I need from my Dom:

1. Patience, I can be reactive when stressed (ADHD overstimulation), but I am working on it. And while somewhat experienced in this lifestyle, I've yet to have fully integrated it into a partnership, so please be kind and understanding. I'm a quick learner and eager to excel!
2. A calm presence for when I am not. When everything around me is chaotic, you are my anchor. The guiding light I return to when I need it most.
3. Honesty, it's the foundation of our dynamic and relationship, and I personally find it difficult to repair once it's been broken
4. Playfulness, I can be silly and hope you can be, too. Laughter is the best way to bond
5. Intellect, as there is nothing sexier than seeing my partner nerd out about their passions or have lively conversations together about everything under the sun. 
6. Integrity in honoring your own values and ethics. How you carry yourself and your actions help me rise to be in sync with your efforts. I am a reflection of you and am honored to present my self as such. 
7. Loyalty, the above point in action. Past experiences have left me with wounds of betrayal. While they are mostly healed (thanks, therapy!), this circles back to the first item. With patience and compassion, when you have me, you have all of me, fully.As I grow, I will need my Dom to grow with me and also seek to improve himself. We are a team and will take life as such. Having all kinds of kinky fun along the way ;)THE KINKY STUFFExperience - As previously mentioned, I’ve mostly experienced a D/s dynamic in the bedroom. My most recent interaction with a Dom (met on Reddit! But different sub) incorporated a bit more of the D/s structure into my daily life and it made me realize that’s what I truly need in a romantic, long-term partnership. I'm an open book and always happy to answer any questions. If you're curious and inquisitive, that makes two of us!

My kinks - I love impact play, being restrained, edging, discreet public play, making out, and THRIVE off praise. Open to trying most things so long as there's been a discussion around it. Can't knock it 'til you try it twice!

D/s dynamic - Looking for someone who will cherish me through my Submission and be the person who grounds me; who I know I can always come to with all my secrets and dreams and goings-on in my life. Open and honest communication is KEY and I cannot stress how important that is for me. I prefer to chat daily and spend time together (when schedules allow) since this is a relationship. I need to feel safe in order to thrive in my submission. I consider my Dom my place of comfort and accountability. The goal is to make our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us.My hard limits (the major stuff at least) - Scat/urine/blood play, age play, permanent marking

Whew! That was a lot. If you’ve made it this far, CONGRATS! Feel free to reach out. I look forward to chatting with you :)