Well It’s been awhile since I’ve wrote one of these but here goes nothing!

For some context, I have roughly about 6 years of Dom/sub dynamic experience, however there is still plenty to learn.

To give some context on the kind of guy that I am, I’m well educated, non-smoker, clean (disease free), open minded, communicative, and well spoken.

As for the type of Dominant I am, I do exhibit certain elements of the Gentle Handed Dom, because I pay particular attention to someone's needs and am very giving in that sense. On the other hand, I also find the firm hand is also a useful guide and tool, discipline is equally important for these balances. The gentle touch to reassure and care for my partner, and the firm hand to discipline and ground my partner as well.

I’m open book, I’ll answer & consider your questions thoughtfully. My commitment is that I will provide the space for you to comfortably explore.

I understand that Dominating is an art form and a lifestyle, it takes patience, practice, and empathy.

As a person, you have the right to ask questions and bring up any concerns you have at anytime in the dynamic. I understand that submission is earned and it is my responsibility to earn that. Your safety and comfort is paramount to me above all else.

As for my physique. I’m 23 and I’m currently living in North Carolina. I sport a moderately athletic build, dirty blonde hair, light brown eyes, and I stand at a towering cue drum roll 5’7! I’m consistently employed, I enjoy the usual outdoor activities such as taking hikes, going kayaking, camping, etc. But I also do a fair amount of reading, writing, and painting as well.

Now for the big question, what am I searching for?

I’m looking for a pretty particular person who is open and understanding to the fact that I’m married. My wife and I have an open marriage agreement. Her and I can have one safe, reliable, and understanding partner each, outside the marriage. I’m seeking someone who I can call a friend, chat with at least a few times a week schedule permitting on both ends. A submissive who I’m compatible with sexually and who enjoys similar kinks and limitations that I have. One who respects my marriage and can understand when I am unavailable. But that does not mean they allow themselves to be neglected by any means. But someone who can understand the reason to my absences.

I also find it incredibly attractive watching someone talk, especially if they are sharing their passions with me. It feels like there is a fire burning inside me whenever it happens. I’d be overjoyed that I would be there to help you grow. To explore and figure out who you are. I would love to be the guide you turn to if you are unsure about something and share my experiences, thoughts and concerns. I would love to have you tell me all about your day, tell me about what annoyed you today, tell me about what did or could make your day. I would enjoy being able to fall into routine with someone and be able to chat about anything together.

If you’ve made it this far, congratulations, I’d like to award you this gold star ⭐️ If you feel like this could be a fit for you then feel at liberty to reach out and introduce yourself, I don’t bite unless you want me to (;