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I am exploring BDSM, but I am honestly not sure where I stand. I know I like dominant men - strong leader types who command rooms. Confidence, power and sexual dominance in the bedroom. They don't HAVE to be older but they usually are, ime. I've been attracted to a lot of my bosses and professors but it's not just 'older guys'... that extra 'x factor' that has to be there. I suspect that is where the authority / power / dominance aspect comes into play.
A lot that seems tied into masculinity in some intrinsic way I can't full explain. Lots of guys my age are adults chronologically but have almost no confidence in who they are as men. It bothers me as someone trying to date and explore this side of life which is partly why I'm posting here.
I don't know if bondage is my thing but I might explore it with the right person. Right now I think I am more turned on by interpersonal connection but there is no doubt I have a specific type and want to at least find someone with that quality. So I would probably explore most things, but the non-kink component has to be there for sure.
Anyway, not sure what else to say here. I think I'm mostly looking to explore this with someone without necessarily feeling pressured into more. I'd prefer to connect and see where it goes.
A bit about me: 23, student, double major. West coast university. I've had one relationship structured around D/s. I play sports but not at a super competitive level. If you have any other questions and we click, I'm happy to answer anything.
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