Hello there, if you’ve found my post amongst the hordes of others, I’m happy to have you. I’m very new here, though I’ve been in the lifestyle for about 7 years with a mix of online and IRL partners. I’ve made the decision recently to seriously settle down and look for my forever partner.

I currently live in the NYC area and have done for about 5 years. Whilst it would be ideal that you are local, I am open to meeting people from anywhere in the US with the hope that if we hit it off over the long term, we’d discuss relocation. Not immediately of course, I don’t expect anyone to uproot their life over a Reddit post.

I’m 5’10”, 29 Single and have a successful career. If it matters to you, I am of South-Asian origin, slender built, fit, though admittedly not all that muscular. I’m an extroverted introvert, which essentially means I can choose to ‘turn it on’ when needed, but don’t always like to be the center of the energy. I am also a major nerd, this means computers, anime, gaming and generally messing about with things that happen to interest me. I pick up hobbies very often, I love trying new things. I absolutely love to travel, though haven’t had much chance to of late, I’m not too outdoorsy, but that’s something I want to change. So perhaps plus points if you’re someone who’d like to help me explore that. As for my kinks, fetishes, and limits, that’s a conversation I’d rather conduct in private than have advertised.

I’m looking for someone who’s around 22-27 years old and is also looking to settle down. I’d want to start by just chatting, getting to know each other, talking, and finding out if we have chemistry before moving to anything more intimate. I want to meet someone who’s speaks her mind and can be.

my friend and equal partner outside of our dynamic as well. I’m not in a rush to jump into anything, I want to find the right person for me, and know that my partner has found the right person for her.

If you've lasted this long through this essay, I hope you have a wonderful day. If you're interested and would like to talk more, send me a chat or DM. I'm friendly and will respond to anything that isn't just a couple of words long.