(Note: I posted this before, but the resulting relationship fell through. Feel free to message me again even if you messaged me before! Also, apologies if I don't wind up getting back to you. I'm really bad about that.)

By the way, if you've made a post on here and I haven't contacted you, don't assume it's because I'm not interested! I'm just more confident putting myself out there to be approached than approaching someone.

Alt title: opens trench coat Hey, kid, you wanna buy some affection?

Alt alt title: The world is ending, wanna bang?

The first thing you should know is that I'm not expecting pay. I'm looking for love, not cash. (Not that there's anything wrong with sex work! But I am not a sex worker.)

Now, about me: I'm a somewhat inexperienced domme on the hunt for someone to shower with praise and attention. Here's a picture of me so you can get an idea of my body type. Please don't message me if you find me unattractive, as my appearance is unlikely to change much. As for my personality, I'm a fiery smartass who nevertheless is very loving and caring. If something is making you sad, I'll swaddle you in blankets and offer to kick its ass for you, be it a person, thing, or concept. I will angrily shout at you to eat and sleep and hydrate because I care about you, dammit. I'm a dumb nerd who loves dumb nerd shit like books, video games, sci-fi, fantasy, DND, anime, metal music, shitposting, and animals. I'm pursuing a degree in computer science. In my spare time, I write, crochet, and do archery (though I struggle to be consistent with any of my hobbies). I'm also a highly political person who attends protests whenever they crop up near me. I don't smoke or drink, though I do enjoy an edible about once a week. I'm a vegetarian, but don't worry--I won't try to convert you if you're not one.

I have depression, anxiety, and ADHD, and I have some bad shit in my past. I know that's kind of a lot, so I understand if it's a dealbreaker, but I'm working on it. I'm in therapy and on medication. Some days are better than others.

Another note about me: I can be confident, flirtatious, and dominant, but I do have self-esteem issues that get in the way of that sometimes. So I may need some encouragement. I'm only human and can't always be perfectly dominant.

Also, fair warning, I need a good bit of attention. I don't do well when we go days without talking. I need to at least text and preferably talk in voice every day. I've tried going without and it doesn't go well.

As for my kinks, I'm relatively vanilla. I just like being in charge. Heavy on the "gentle" part of gentle femdom. I really just want to ravish you, drown you in affection, and maybe tie you up a little bit. Here's some kinks/actions and my stance on them:

Things I like (though none of these are essential at all--my only mandatory kink is cuddling): giving praise; orgasm delay/denial/control; riding/being on top; light bondage; blindfolds; toys; overstimulation; teasing; being called miss/mistress/ma'am; chastity

Things I'm not specifically into, but am willing to do for a partner: being called mommy/daddy; pegging/anal (you receiving); humiliation; feminization; light pain; roleplay; heavy bondage; petplay; consensual non-consent

Not my jam, sorry: serious pain; watersports; scat; blood; permanent harm/scarification; diapers/bathroom control; anal (me receiving)

That said, I'll try most things once. I get off on getting you off. If you're really into, I don't know, inflatable nuns or something, I'll at least give it a go for the sake of pleasing you.

Oh, and I squirt sometimes. Sorry if that's a turnoff, but I can't exactly control it.

Now, about YOU: You are approximately 22-32 years old and live in the PNW (I've had several long-distance relationships and they're just too difficult). You get along with my two cats and preferably like dogs too. You don't smoke (I have asthma, sorry). You never want children. (I am 100% serious about that. NEVER. No adopting, nothing.) You're down with my nerdy interests, and preferably share some of them. You don't regularly engage in hardcore drugs like heroin and cocaine. Politically, you are left of center; you don't have to agree with me on everything, but you have to be down with having a socialist girlfriend who occasionally dons all black and goes out to fight the cops. You're vaccinated or have a medical reason not to be. You are patient with my mental illness (within reason) and don't judge me for seeking treatment. You either aren't bothered by me being messy and disorganized or are willing to help me improve. You don't mind being gently teased/bullied/argued with as a form of affection (though I'll tone it down if necessary; I try to be gentle with people). You aren't super religious. You are not threatened by my bisexuality. You aren't going to ghost me and will explain to me what happened if things go wrong between us.

In short, I receive: a sub. You receive: my undying affection. Hit me up if that exchange appeals to you. ;)

Please put the word "banana" somewhere in your message if you've read this far. I know this is a long post, but all of it is important.

I often forget to check new reddit, so I'm more likely to see a PM than a chat.