The short version of this is that I’m a hedonistic narcissist looking to have his ego stroked by a loyal, obedient sub girl. In turn, she’ll receive my calm and domineering presence, my random knowledge of every subject, my wisdom from life experiences, and my natural ability to understand people.

Me:

My previous relationships have always involved a girl who gets to know herself by getting to know me. And “herself” is always a feminine mirror of me. A cuter, smaller mirror who is better at people-pleasing, so I don’t have to be!

My personality is strong, and I need a girl who will recognize and respect that, just as I will respect her ability to accept my influence and provide inspiration, femininity, and loving support.

Base Stats:

• White male

• 30 years old

• 6'3". Broad shouldered.

• Wavy brown hair.

• You’ll probably think I’m at least a little handsome.

My interests are deep and wide ranging. I would love to talk to you about literature, poetry, film, music (any and all), science, history, sports, politics, or technology. Occasionally, if we’re both in the mood, I’d be happy to cause you painful boredom with random facts about space or my favorite sports teams... Idk maybe that’s a kink we can explore together. As far as hobbies, I love gaming (though I have almost no time for it anymore), lifting weights, film, reading, writing, spending time with friends, and many others.

Most of my kinks are just natural extensions of the way I am. Some favorites are CNC, DDLG, Impact/Choking, Humiliation & Degradation, & Restraints. As a dom I can be either soft or hard depending on the situation and the girl. I truly do enjoy both to the fullest extent possible. I know that seems like a cop-out but you’ll just have to trust me that I can and will do both.

At the risk of alienating my audience, here are some of my preferences. They are only preferences and the woman I'm describing is ideal.

You:

Younger than me. Intellectually curious but insecure. You are the type that asks questions and is honest when you don't know what something is. Your strongest political opinion is probably something along the lines of “pineapple doesn’t go on pizza” (and you’re wrong about this… we can debate it later).

You’re local to Illinois or at least the surrounding states. I don’t mind travelling a bit for a great connection, but within driving distance.

You're fascinated with some form of art, whether it be music or film or TV or something. At the very least you have a passion and pursue it recreationally, if not professionally. I want you to have a personality that I can mold but be willing to part with if necessary. Ideally if you have strong opinions already you can be swayed by logic, but if you feel you are already deeply entrenched in your worldview and think it will not be possible to change at all, please ignore this post. Unless you just like to argue, then hit me up 😊

Stereotypical man alert: bonus points if you're tall and thin, short and petite, or chubby with nice proportions and a pretty face.

You're capable of writing full sentences (I won't ask a lot from you at the beginning, but effort will be on the list).

I also hope you can commit to communicating your needs and limits clearly, as I will commit to respecting them.

So that's about it. If you read this far, please include in your title a piece of media you've been obsessed with in the last year. Could be a movie, TV show, song, album, or literally anything.