Who are you? You are ready to strive for something big, but you care about your own safety and boundaries. You are an experienced slave or at least have done enough work to know that you want to submit. You are experienced at polyamory. You are active in your local lifestyle community or are ready to take that step.

Who am I? I am an experienced master, active in my local Master/slave community as well as the national M/s community. I am successful: my vassal and I are six years into an amazing M/s relationship. I am grounded in consent culture, nonviolent communication, and respect for the boundaries and needs of those I interact with. I’ve always longed for a poly family, and I will make that a reality. Even with the other things going on in my life, I have the time, emotional energy, and poly experience to build the deep M/s relationship I am looking for. As a master I am committed to my growth as well as that of my slaves; an M/s relationship builds up everyone involved.

You want to serve your master; you want to be a key part of why he is a success. You will be a key member of his team. I am looking for service to help promote my teaching, writing and spirit work. That includes things like social media, advertising, graphics, and helping produce videos. If you already have those skills, great. If not, you come with a combination of a desire to learn new things and an ability to work with freelancers with those skills and judge the quality of their work. You will bring excitement and encouragement to your master’s projects.

You also desire to serve your master personally; fulfilling his desires brings you joy. Sex and kink are part of how you will eventually surrender. For the right master, you would eagerly participate in your own enslavement, building protocols and rituals that remind you that you are claimed—that you gave yourself willingly. Among other things, these protocols would be there in the background, a constant reminder, without being too distracting or disrupting your life.

Sexually, you are comfortable with your desirability. Once STI risks have been addressed, you are comfortable with your body fluids and those of your lover. Kink would be part of how we connect, but the specific kinks and what they mean to us would be something we develop over time. Energy exchange, energetic connection, and sex magic are important to me. I already know I could enjoy impact, spanking, sensation play, electrical, play around masturbation and orgasm, and ABDL. On the psychological front, I know I could enjoy hypno, humiliation, some forms of objectification, and some forms of degradation. Those are just a few options; I am sure you bring your own interests, and it is fine if some of the things I could be into wouldn’t work for you at all.

Obviously surrender takes trust, and that takes time. I am looking for a slave, but building a strong M/s relationship starts at the same place as any other relationship. From a position of mutual strength, we work to get to know each other. Dynamics are explicitly negotiated over time, and until power is exchanged or authority transferred, we negotiate from a power balance. Poly relationships take time too, and as they deepen, it is important that everyone involved is open to change rather than forcing all the adjustment onto the new person.

If significant parts of this call to you, reach out. Let me know about yourself, and what parts of this ad call to you. If there are parts that you don’t connect with, explain that early in the conversation. I look forward to getting to know you. I'm happy to start online, but eventually, if we negotiate a dynamic, you would relocate to Colorado.