You might be the one I seek.

Me:
ENM/poly/whatever the term is going these days. Business office manager, professional but able to let loose. Tattoos and prior piercings, long hair, 2 dogs, 2 cats. I love video games, movies and shows, music, and adventures! Trained labor and postpartum doula, was a nanny for 17 years, love and want children.

I'm bipolar (though you'd likely not know to meet me), have fibromyalgia (I am tired a lot, but it doesn't necessarily stop me from living!), and fat. I say all of this not to 'dog' on myself, but to be upfront and honest.

True honesty is very important to me as is open communication in a relationship. If you find you struggle to say when things upset you, this isn't the (potential) relationship for you but I wish you the best of luck finding yours! I'm a DV survivor and I've lived in my car, in tenement apartments, in hotels, etc. So I've been on top of the world and in the dirt, and it's given me a unique perspective on life and human rights I think!

You:
30-45, ENM/poly/etc. or not but I'm not looking to change my partnership status currently, strong arms and a beard, maybe? Enthusiastic, adventurous, driven and know what you want in life. An animal lover and respectful. Hopefully taller than me (5'6"), but I'm not especially picky. Within 2 hours of Syracuse is much preferred, or able to travel and host in a hotel when you're in town. I'm not super picky, tbh, I'm mainly seeking a great connection and someone I vibe well with above all else.

Kinks:

I'm into DDLG, and the idea of a lot of things. My IRL experiences with BDSM have been minimal, so if you're looking for 24/7 slave/pet/etc. stuff, I am not the right gal for you. I value and love my freedom and ability to be a functional person outside of the dynamics with others, so it's important any play remains just that.

If any of this sounds good, send me a message! I am waiting to hear from you. :) PLEASE include some substance about yourself, as it gets tiring to see so many 'hey/hi/hello' messages or messages that contain no info about you, but ask intrusive questions of me. I'm happy to chat and get to know one another!