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So here’s a long shot.
A very long while ago.. I was having a delightful conversation with a dude whose username was some variation of dr. Erick. Eric Ericsson.
He was a happily married older professor type, probably listening to music with no words and sipping whiskey. You understand the type? Academic but attracted to youthful energy. Sitting silent type with a cutting wit.
We were in the midst of a truly delightful intro when dr Eric’s profile completely disappeared off Reddit.
Anyway. I often think about him and what happened. Wonder if he came back with a new alias.
What were we talking about? Bondage. Domination. Moments that made him pause the whiskey drinking to catch his breath.
More specifically, cause you need to understand the kind of nerd I am, we were talking about pain as an anchor for pleasure, the relationship between the two, how the intimacy of trust is the seasoning that makes interactions and sessions great. That the act of abandoning your own uniqueness in pursuit of pleasure requires an anchor to a person, and that few people are worthy of that type of trust. On the dynamics of power, shared vs taken, on vulnerability and deep connections.
Anywho. I’d you’ve seen him, tell him to give me a shout. 40 F. Married, happily. Nothing physical will ever come from it, I’m more into the esoteric and intellectual stimulation.
Mind.. if all this intrigues you and you have thoughts - hit me up
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