Are you a self-proclaimed boss at work and the anal, type A person who always becomes the leader of group projects? Do you simultaneously have a secret desire to unleash your inner naughty side, one that no one at work would ever suspect you you have? Well, you might just be the missing piece to my puzzle.

About me (vanilla): a confident US male with a demanding career in healthcare. When I'm not in the hospital, you'll find me at the gym, playing soccer, in the kitchen trying new recipes, diving into new books, or jet-setting for work.

About me (non-vanilla): I'm a seasoned veteran of the D/S scene, with almost a decade of experience under my belt. I've got a soft spot for nurturing new subs, but I also enjoy diving right in with experienced ones. In our dynamic, we'll have the freedom to be goofy and playful outside the bedroom, but when we step into our sanctuary of desire, your complete obedience and submission will be expected. While I enjoy power exchange, I'm more interested in your surrendering control than your sexual submission. It's a partnership that requires effort, but with the right person, it's worth every bit of it. The key is finding that perfect harmony between our personalities both inside and outside the bedroom.

About you: You are an educated, self-care enthusiast who revels in open-mindedness and engaging conversations. As a willing, obedient, and eager submissive or slave, you've always known deep down that you are submissive at heart. I'm seeking a relationship that's purely monogamous, with a focus on your enthusiastic desire to serve and relinquish control.

Communication: I get it, life gets busy for both of us. But I believe in maintaining near-daily communication, even if it's just a quick check-in, because connection matters.

My kinks: Let's dive into a world of bondage, spanking, ice/wax, deep throating, double penetration, anal play, gags, delightful pain, pussy torture/spanking (yes, it's a thing), shaving, nipple play, training novice subs, orgasm control/denial/edging, humiliation, and perhaps even some hidden public escapades.

Whew, we made it to the end! If you've read this far and feel that electrifying connection, send me a PM with your age, time zone, and your kinks/limits. I'm eagerly waiting to hear from you!