Good afternoon! I hope you’re having a good start to your week. I identify as a Soft Daddy or Caregiver and am looking for my person. I’m looking for the real deal with someone. No funny business to each other, openness and transparency. I’d like to fully get to know each other, but intentionally - meaning we are intending to end up together. I’m not looking to use someone nor am I looking to be used. We both have likely already experienced that, and I know how to sniff out red flags, which I can also teach you to do from my experience in the scene / online world. That may sound stern, but we live in a world where both I and you need to protect ourselves online. That’s why I will be happy to earn your trust.

Aside from that unfun stuff, here is some of the more fun stuff about my energy. I’m a very romantic and hands on Daddy. I’m not ultra strict or rule based, but lean much more on the encouragement / affirmation and emotional connection side. I am at a point in life where I know what I want. I have career goals, side career goals & goals for a BDSM/ Cgl relationship. That being said, I’m only at the beginning of knowing who I am, and I had to learn some of that the hard way. I’ve already had my failures in life and am now incredibly motivated to be successful, including my next relationship. If you and I hit it off and enjoy each other, I will find a way for us to close the distance and experience our happiness together. I am probably more emotionally available than you might be used to, and I need that in a partner. I need someone sensitive and receptive, both things that I am. I need someone monogamous who does not get tempted to be disloyal, because poly or being sneaky on me are my hard limits.
I am looking to make someone my own and show you how it feels to belong to someone who isn’t just or for themselves. I just know that my life would be better with you in it, and I’ll make sure you know it.

Qualities I’m looking for are: loyal, soft, sweet, receptive, foodie, similar attachment style to mine Aka anxious attachment, must be from US. Amount of experience does not matter to me. If you feel you are understanding of why I’m so picky, don’t let my pickiness scare you off! I’m a big softie, I’m just very eager and determined. Let me know if you have any questions.