Look, I dont really browse other guys posts on here, so I dont know what they are putting in their post or what they are offering, but I know there are a lot of them. Hundreds, every single day. So the odds of my post sticking out from the crowd is probably pretty slim. And the odds of me finding my perfect sub even slimmer. I hope you prove me wrong.

So what do I mean I'm looking for a sub who wants something more? I want something beyond sex, beyond control, I want trust, I want openness, I want a connection. The relationship we are about to experience together might be one of the most intimate things someone can experience. Giving up control to a random stranger. No, I dont want to be a stranger. I want to know you inside and out. I want to earn your trust, and your affection and your obedience. I want you to be obedient because you want to make me happy, and less so because you are afraid of the punishment. I am also possibly looking for an emotional connection. Its not a requirement, but certainly something I would be interested in. I find that if an emotional connection forms as well, these relationships are often much more rewarding.

My system of getting very close to my subs might not work for everyone, but if you buy in to the system, it can be very rewarding. I wont only give you tasks for my benefit, but for yours as well. If there is something you are battling or working towards, I want to help you. A happy sub makes a good sub, and a good sub, makes a happy daddy. Now that you know what I mean by something more, lets get into the rest.

About me: I have a normal 8-5 office type job, but I can still chat throughout the day. I am into music, sports, video games, beer, coffee and while I'm not into super cute stuff myself, I love when my baby girl is and love to know all her stuffies names and see all her colorings. I am also married and prefer my partner to be married as well. This also limits my availability to mostly 8am-5pm.

Communication will be done on Telegram.

What I am looking for: Other than what I posted above, I am looking for attention, I crave attention from my sub. I am looking for loyalty, I will be your only dom. I love needy, clingy, etc. I need someone that is just as interested in me as I am in them. I would like someone that is available to chat throughout the day. I dont mind mom bods or THICC girls, but I am not looking for a BBW at this time.

Things I am not interested in: micromanaging. I dont care to tell you what to eat for every meal. If you are working on a diet, I can help, but I dont care to order you to eat certain food. I dont care to tell you when you can go to the bathroom, however I sometimes like to watch you pee ;). I do like picking out outfits and bra and panties sometimes though. Not into pacis and diapers but love onsies and stuffies.

Sex: Yes, I am looking for a sexual aspect to this. It is something we can work up to if you arent comfortable jumping in right away. This will include pics and videos.

Kinks: some of my kinks are: water sports, nipple play, anal, anal stretching, orgasm control, multiple orgasms, forced orgasms, body writing, exhibitionism, spanking, choking and others I am sure I am forgetting.

More info: I am looking for something long term. I hate searching and would like to settle down with a sub. I do have a good track record of not abandoning or ghosting subs. I am a very caring and loving dom and want the best for my subs. If you are interested and think we would be a good fit, please send me a message and explain why we would be a good fit. Bonus points for including a pic in your message. Sorry for the crazy long post but I have experience and know what I am looking for. If you made it this far send me a message!

Are you my unicorn?