Hi. I’m John. I’m looking for someone local for an IRL relationship but willing to start with an online LDR if you have intentions to relocate if we hit it off.

Age:

40, I prefer an age gap and mentor Daddy role. 18- 24 is ideal but up to about 35-36 with age regression or personalities similar to the 18-24 age range is also great!

Appearance:

I'm 6'2" and skinny (165 lbs). Viking haircut and short beard (think Ragnar before he shaved his head). My style varies from full suit, skinny tie, pocket square, and hat, to sweats and t-shirt depending on my mood and what I am doing that day.

I couldn't give you an answer for what I'm attracted to physically to save my life. Over the course of my life the switch has turned on for just about every "type" under the sun but a clone of someone I was attracted to can do nothing for me. I just know, when it is there, it is there. The only thing I do know is that I am looking for someone petite in height and weight so my skinny ass can toss you around.

My general interests:

I am a full time gamer nerd with ADHD. Because of the ADHD part of that, my interests can vary wildly over time but gaming (video or otherwise), binging movies and shows on the like 8 streaming platforms I waste money on every month, and anime pretty consistently stay on the interests list. I hate reading unless it is teaching me something. I love learning. I spent months learning about quantum and astrophysics just because. Outside the house, I like going to nice dinners (Sushi will almost always win), art exhibits, museums, and leisurely hikes in the mountains. While I do enjoy those out of the house things, I enjoy them in limited doses. I'm very introverted by nature and going out comes with a pretty extensive cooldown timer.

Sundays are exclusively Sunday Funday (also known as adventure day) with my Great Dane. This is nonnegotiable but you are more than welcome to join us!

My BDSM interests/personality:

I am looking for a 24/7 tpe, sos, that thrives in a free use, fairly high protocol environment. I'm more on the soft side. I enjoy some impact play but more extreme play would only exist because you are into it, not because I am. On the service side, I am looking for someone that enjoys domestic tasks. My ADHD makes me struggle with things like cooking and cleaning. I’m not a slob by any means, I just hate having to do it so someone that enjoys that kind of service is ideal. Sexually, I love oral. I will use your mouth about 90% of the time and several times a day. I’ll want you to be naked in private always and constantly playing with your body.

Looking For (Vanilla):

As said in the title, my forever princess. I want to find a long term monogamous relationship with someone that I enjoy spending time with outside of the BSDM side of the relationship. Finding another online gamer would be nice but at minimum someone that understands that online gaming is my most enjoyed downtime hobby and I will spend a lot of time doing it. I don't care if you want to be a homemaker, climb the corporate ladder, or trying to climb the competitive ladder in your favorite game but if being a full time stay at home sos is your thing, that is extra great. I’m not rich but I make enough to support a comfortable life for two.

Misc:

My hard and soft limits are basically a standard copy pasta from any BDSM site that talks about limits.

I have had a vasectomy. If you have or want children, I am not your guy.

I'm shy about an online presence so I didn't include any pictures here but happy to provide in private.