I think understanding one's kinks tends to reveal the nature of such desires - and for myself: it has always been but an exploration of passion, and both my ability to impose and inflict it on someone, as well as their desire to trust me to be their guide and companion into such descents into delectable debauchery.

I am writer, a Neuroscience graduate hoping to become a doctor, a dreamer and a under-recognized, unsolicited and unpaid comedian. Although to you perhaps - something more. Something sweetly intense, a dominant tailored for many pleasures - sadistic tendencies secondary to the sensualities.

As to you: Someone possibly busy, intelligent, passionate themselves - craving some respite from the inane natures of lustful (and purely lustful) connections, and the work at hand... knowing that perhaps as you are working on your career - that there isn't enough space to craft the relationship and dynamic you desire and crave... yet, surely you cannot be the only one?

Ideally this would be something which would evolve into something more permanent, but perhaps all it is meant to be is two tourists and the vacation they share. Weeks, months, years... perhaps a lifetime. But for now - to take all that we can take... and offer all that we can offer.

For that is what you see in me... a light in the distance. Fire burning passionate as your own... And perhaps that inspires some other fires inside of you.

Being frank: I can be quite intense, but as much as your submission - something to be earned. The naughty, filthy degrading things to call you, the praise, the pain, or edging, denial or over stimulation... whichever I would prescribe for our perversions.

If you've read this far, I have an oddity for your academic interests: tell me a topic of your liking... ramble about it like you've dorked out for a kinky partner before.

As for preferences: I am Asian, and 5'7, average build, and what I could consider attractive. I think highly of myself, and aside from my lack of time, and consolidated career have my stuff together - and I would like the same. I will be your friend, and I hope there is a mutual understanding for the value of consistency, but the possibility that we may get busy, and we do not talk everyday (depending how it irons out), but that we make the time we share count.

Limits: I am not into scat, a lack of limits, rushing things. Not particularly into age play or pet play.