Hey! I’m a 25 year old trans man (I have some genderweirdness, but don’t identify as non-binary so just say I’m a trans guy) looking for hookups and NSA fun (although I’m open to FWBs if things go that way) with trans female/transfem bottoms/switches (inclusive of post-bottom surgery people).
I’ve been on T for 8 years, am 5 years post-top surgery, and haven’t had bottom surgery yet. I’d describe my appearance as ‘lazy-goth bear’ - I wear a lot of black, have a dad bod, and am tattooed, long haired, quite hairy, and beardy.
I am polyamorous and have multiple partners, and I’m not looking for anything romantic with anyone else. I live with one of my partners but can host. I’m not looking for online play, as I know I don’t really get anything out of it, and ideal outcome for me would be casual SM play when our schedules line up rather than ongoing dynamics. On that subject, I have a job with weird hours, so it might take some time for our schedules to line up - sorry!
I generally identify as a kinky top rather than a dom, as power exchange is secondary in terms of what I’m into and I don’t mind being on either side of the D/s slash - I just do not like being penetrated at all and prefer to be the active person when it comes to SM (with a few specific exceptions)
On the vanilla side of things, I like strap-on topping, giving oral sex (of any kind), and fingering/fisting (again, any kind).
On the kinky side of things, I like electroplay, flogging, wax, leather, boots, spit, pits/pit worship, choking, rope (the one thing I’m a total switch for, although I’m rusty), piss, and a few other forms of impact play. I’m also curious about keyholding and occasionally play with blood (although I won’t the first few times I play with somebody and it needs some discussion).
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