Hey all! I know this Seeking Post is quite detailed, but it is because I am serious about finding the one. I went ahead and came up with some quick stats if you wanted to know about me quickly.

Quick About Me:

5 foot 9

Baby Blue Eyes

Bigger Guy (means better cuddles!)

37 Year Old

Cleveland, Ohio

Daddy Dom

Affectionate, Clingy, Loving but I can be Stern if it called for

Monogamous

What I am looking for:

-Open to Local or Long Distance (LDRs) that will be together in person eventually (please be inside of the US)

-Something deeper/emotional

-Communication/Enjoys texting, phone calls, video chats, hanging out. This is very important to me. I like to be in contact all day, every day. If you are someone that needs days to not speak, then our connection will suffer. I understand if people are busy, but I mean if a person has nothing going on and simply does not want to talk it will be hard for me to build a connection. I am someone that has my phone on them all day, and I generally reply right away or within minutes. If you are unsure, ask me. And I will gladly elaborate

-Honesty/Loyalty/Truthful

-Long lasting relationship

-A close bond/friendship as part of things

-Someone that enjoys kissing, cuddling, physical touch, affection

-Chemistry

-Kink Friendly. I am a Daddy Dom, and having a Babygirl/Little is something very important to me. How that looks depends on the person. Aspects of the dynamic that I have dabbled with include: Age Regression, Age Play, Rules, Praises, Funishments, Daily Structure (including earning stickers for doing your chores to earn prizes), I read bedtime stories, and collaring is something important to me. I am mainly a DD with sometimes having a softer, submissive side... so someone that can help to take care of me in some moments would be very helpful. I can go into Little or subspace at times, and it helps if you would be able to be there for me in those moments. Generally, I am Daddy most of the time.

About Me:

I am a person that sees needy and clingy as positives. Physical touch is important to me. I've done Long Distance before and it can work if both parties are invested, but the goal is to eventually live together. I am not so sure I am up for relocating, but it is not off the table for the right person. I am not sure if I can date someone outside of the US, sorry.

Words carry a lot of weight, and quality time is important as well. Show me you care with compliments, words of encouragement, interest in me, and by wanting to spend time with me. We could be hanging out, watching a movie, cuddling, having a deep conversation, on a two hour phone call, or video chatting. I am not looking for a casual thing. No hookups, play partners, or friends with benefits. I want to fall in love and be married. Having kids sounds amazing, but it is not a must. I've had some health issues over the last few years especially with COVID, going through a divorce, and working from home... I am working on them, eating better, and losing weight. If a person's size or weight is an issue at all, I am not the person for you. I am working on being a better me, and the right partner will be there to help encourage me. And I will encourage them to be the best them!

Any questions, I am an open book and happy to answer.

What I bring to the table:

I am someone that dotes over those I care about. Compliments, and cuddles. Kisses, and random I Miss You messages. I love being a rock for people to be able to lean on, and I am there when a person needs me. I will drop everything and drive to help someone in need if I am able to do so. I am patient, and try to be as understanding as I can. I will make you laugh and smile, and wipe away your tears when you definitely were cutting onions earlier. I am okay with someone having their own baggage or history. I am supportive and will do whatever I can to make you happy. I am loyal, and willing to go out on a climb for those close to me.

About me:

This section I've decided to make easier. Get to know me, ask questions, and I will gladly answer them. I will give some basic info to know some of my interests. But here are some important parts.

-I am an overweight guy. If you have to ask "how big are you" then this will not work. I am not defined by my size. I am limited physically by it in some aspects (i.e. I am not someone that will go hiking) but I do get out and do stuff. I love going to dinner, to the movies, and sports games when I can. If size is even a small thing that would hold you back, please do not waste our time. It is something I am working on actively, but it is a life long struggle. If you cannot accept my size, I am not the guy for you. I am working on going out more and doing more, but you need to be patient with me. I DO drive. And I work from home.

-I have a history. I have baggage. I am needy and clingy. I have some issues with self worth and self value. I am not the most confident guy all of the time, but I will do my best for my partner to be a better person. The more I get comfortable with you, the more confidence I will become. It is a trust for me. If you can see through the murk, there is a devoted, loving, hopeless romantic in there. Just know that I am someone that is a work in progress and will need reassurance. If you are unable to handle that, I can respect that and wish you the best.

-I Grew up in Cleveland, lived in Akron for a few years, and now reside in Parma (right near the Cleveland border). I am close to my family (parents and sister) and they are important to me. An expressive and emotional guy that wears his heart on his sleeve. I love long, deep conversations. But I also enjoy silly memes and picture of cute animals.

I am -

Loyal/ Devoted

Honest / Caring

Geeky

Attentive / Hopeless Romantic

Open Minded / Kinky

Liberal

Pro-LGBTQ

I do fall into that teenage, hopeless romantic stage often. I want to make out on the couch with a movie on, and will get butterflies from just holding your hand. I may be 37, but I love and act like someone much younger. Let's share TikToks!

I tend to love hard. I like to make people feel special. I love giving compliments and doting over those I like. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am far from perfect and am working on being a better me. I fall fast, and I fall hard. I can be patient. I can build a friendship first. I want someone that likes talking and is willing to have long conversations with me. I want to be someone's priority. Someone willing to be 100% in the relationship. I've had to fight for relationships and often it ends up being one-sided. I want to be equals.

I am a geek, but I love sports. I love humor, but can be serious. I love to listen, but I can also talk. I love music, writing, and just getting lost talking to other people. I can attend a baseball game, or just sit on a porch at night and have a conversation for hours. I pride myself on being someone that can watch a documentary on Netflix, attend a baseball game, play Pokemon Go, or be silly and go swimming. I do not pin myself down to a certain label. I am me. And I can relate to a lot of different things, likes, and people.

And must like cats, or Luna is not going to be a fan. I've had Luna for 10 years... she is always there for me.

ESFJ

Extrovert(28%) Sensing(31%) Feeling(53%) Judging(31%)

Love Languages

12 Physical Touch

7 Quality Time

7 Words of Affirmation