I’ve posted many times before but never found any luck. To sum it up I’m someone who really needs a dominant and controlling guy. My ideal dynamic would include rules, and rewards/punishments. Talking about punishments i can be a bit bratty. I know when to stop but it’s no fun if I’m always saying yes.

Basically I’m looking to work towards TPE. This obviously takes time, many conversations and trust. Trust is the biggest foundation for success. This doesn’t form overnight. But I want to build something towards that. I feel like if the time difference is more then 3-4 hours ahead or behind there’s no point in texting. I need someone who is able to communicate every day. I understand you’re busy but don’t tell me you can’t text in the morning “Hey I’m going to be busy for a bit but have a good day.” I feel that’s pretty reasonable.

My kinks are VERBAL degradation and humiliation. Edging and orgasm control. TPE, having to admit embarrassing things on call is such a huge kink. Speech control is huge too. Choking, hair pulling, face slapping.

Talking about voice call, if you have a deep voice and like to call a lot you automatically are first, so please mention that. You also move up in my list if your reply is worded properly with punctuation and you’re generally someone with good grammar. In my opinion it shows me you talk in high protocol which is another kink you could call it.

No married men or over 40…

Limits are saving pics for now, threatening, knives, permanent damage, piss, body drawing. I’m not a masochist so not too much pain. Nothing abusive or threatening to post my pics.

If you just text hi or “m dom add me on snap” you won’t get a response. Tell me something interesting, tell me something that’ll make you stand out. I’m interested, I just want to see you are too!

Extra points if you can tell me about your experience in your opening message. I read everyone’s text but only respond to the ones that interest me.