Hello!

Yes, I have posted here before. Unfortunately a lot of people who messaged hadn't actually read my post, I appreciate it is long but please do read it all, I have tried to be as clear as possible about what I am looking for! :)

Before I go into more detail about who I am and who and what I am seeking, please only message me if you are based in the UK and you are looking for an IRL dynamic. I have absolutely NO interest in an online dynamic, sorry.

ME

I am 25, single and live alone in the South of England. I work in admin, I love spending time with my friends and family, I enjoy cooking, baking, music, travelling and long walks. I guess you could say I have a pretty vanilla life...

It's worth mentioning, not that it should matter, but I do have autism - I am high functioning, able to live alone, drive and do all the 'normal' things in life. I do struggle in some social situations around new people or in unfamiliar places, but have learnt to "mask" quite well.

Physically

I am white, 5'3 (on a good day), have long auburn hair, hazel eyes and often wear glasses these days. I have a slightly curvy build. I would describe myself a plain Jane.

kink

I am fairly inexperienced when it comes to BDSM, but have had some experiences in the past where I was restrained, had riding crops and floggers used on me, spanked, a bit of orgasm control and general rough sex. This wasn't within a dynamic, but these experiences have left me wanting more... I know that I am naturally submissive and I would love to explore my submissive side more! My main kinks I'd love to explore are:

~ restraints
~ impact play
~ breath play
~ edge/fear play
~ edging
~ rules/structure
~ face slapping
~ humiliation
~ nipple play/torture
~ degradation
~ name calling
~ CNC/abduction play
~ orgasm control/denial
~ punishments
~ micromanagement
~ TPE (eventually)

(and much more).

I'd want to test my tolerance to pain and can see myself being a masochist sub.

Hard limits: anything illegal, scat, vomit, DDLG/age play, permanent injury, blood, online play, pet play and snapchat!

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What/Who I am looking for

I'd love to be able to explore my submissive side with an experienced Dom with a sadistic side. Someone who'd be able to gradually over time train and guide me. You'd need to be genuine, respectful, caring, understanding, sadistic and single - I am NOT looking for guys in relationships or married men, not for me. I am looking for something long term, with the view of forming a D/s dynamic that is present in everyday life. I like guys who are confident and strong both physically and mentally. I want to be able to fully let go and submit to a Dom, so building trust is important, I understand these things don't just happen overnight.

Other

I've had messages on here in the past where people have demanded I call them Sir/Master straight away, and demanding pictures etc... I will ignore and block any messages of these nature.

I am not interested in DDLG or age play, sorry to the Daddy Dom's, I'm sure you're lovely! :)

Safe words and aftercare are a must!

Despite living alone I wouldn't be prepared to host, this isn't due to anything traumatic, but because of my autism I see my home as my safe, personal space for me - I rarely let friends and family over.

I would never switch

I will share photos when I am ready and feel comfortable

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Sorry if the above made me sound like a Karen, I just want to be as clear as possible to prevent time wasting.

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If you've read this far, congratulations!

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````~ M x

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