I am looking for someone and something very specific. To start…. female. Someone that is mature, and intelligent; married, and feeling sexually unsatisfied or neglected; submissive, or curious about your submissive side, and looking for something safe as an outlet to explore these feelings. You are probably successful, a boss, in control and in charge all day. And giving up some form of control is something you are curious about, or crave, or need.

I’m an older, married, dominant man interested in any form of control, but my specific interest is orgasm control, orgasm denial, edging and teasing. Putting this all together, here is my simple proposal to you. I want to control your orgasms. I want to decide when and if you get to have one. How would this work? We would figure it out together, but here is one idea…

You read this far, so we assume you are not satisfied by your partner, and you have to take things into your own hands. So when you are wanting and ready to masturbate, you will have to ask me for permission to have an orgasm. Sometimes I will say no, and you will just edge yourself and stop. Sometimes I will say yes. Sometimes I will say yes, but impose some specific conditions. We can establish rules to address life’s realities and inconveniences, such as timely responses. If you are interested, the details are all negotiable.

I am only looking to correspond online, by direct message or email. And most important... long-term. The on-going exchange as I get to know you, your likes, your dislikes, your limits... all off that is critical to build this to the intensity you want and need. My interest in this goes beyond filthy, dirty chat. Of course, that is part of it! But so is witty banter, friendship, and support.

I know this can be an arousing, intense, and satisfying way to explore this for the right person in the wrong circumstance. Get in touch if you are interested or intrigued or connected with something I wrote here.