I'm Winnie (or Winter)! I'm queer and nonbinary/genderqueer--AFAB if it matters--and my pronouns are they/she. I'm currently in western-central PA (in a very small town, so I'll be more specific if we start talking!) but I'm planning on moving to Columbus, OH before the end of this year. I'm polyamorous and I live with my queerplatonic partner for stability and support, but I date solo.

I'm hoping to meet people in the 23-40 age range. Definitely not under 23 as that's a big boundary for me, but I'm willing to talk to people a bit above 40 and see if there's a connection! I'm primarily queer4queer in my dating life, which means I typically only date other people who identity as queer in some way. Beyond not being cishet, I really don't care too much about what you look like or your gender/sexuality or etc. If there's a connection, then I'm down for a relationship! However, please note that I'm a strong leftist and I'm agnostic with religious trauma, so I am 100% not interested in talking to conservatives or Christians.

I'm plus-size (and I often used the word fat as a neutral descriptor for myself) and I'm trying to be unapologetic about it. I'm also neurodivergent, and I'm disabled/chronically ill--which means I sometimes face barriers and limitations in what I can do. But I will always put 100% effort into everything.

I'm currently chatting with someone super long-distance I who might end up being in some sort of relationship or dynamic with. So right now I'm really interested in meeting someone nearby (maybe in OH, since that's where I'm heading!) who I could potentially have an in-person relationship with eventually. I think I'm demisexual, so I'm looking to develop a relationship that also has kink dynamic--not just looking for the kink dynamic itself.

I'm fairly kinky in theory, still a bit inexperienced in practice (at least in person--I've been in some online kink dynamics). I'm submissive, and I'm looking for someone who can fill the role of being a dom for me not only sexually, but... somewhat incorporating it into my lifestyle as well. I definitely do not need TPE, nor am I interested in that; but it would be nice to have some rules and structure in my life where I have none. I need someone who would genuinely enjoy taking care of a sub (with the understanding that I'm polyamorous, disabled, and generally just... not always/only a sub) and also wants to have a relationship beyond the kink dynamic. Ideally, I'm interested in someone who would be my partner first, who also happens to my dom.

Kinks: I'm like 98% submissive. It takes a lot to pull anything dominant out of me lol. Bondage, spanking, choking, praise and degradation, exhibitionism and voyeurism, group sex, ddlg/mdlg, double penetration, knife play, somno, cnc, public sex (within reason). Any of this could be on or off the table; I'm not necessarily looking for someone to fulfill every single of of my kinks! I'm also open to other stuff depending on what my potential partner would be into, but I do have some hard limits like piss/scat, illegal stuff, etc, and I usually like to make it known that I'm not a masochist (obviously with my kinks I like a little pain and danger lol--but nothing extreme, so I probably wouldn't do well with a sadist).

I would love to talk and get to know each other first, and establish if we'd be interested in each other/compatible/etc. Then delve into dating, and setting up rules and boundaries surrounding a kink dynamic within that relationship. Full disclosure that I'm a survivor of CSA--I've had lots of therapy, but you're gonna have to earn my trust before we get to the sex.

If I haven't scared you away yet, DM me your favorite color (helps me to know you've read the whole post lol). Let's see what we can build together ❤️