Hello there,

To start off, I don't really have a posting strategy ready to lure potential prey into my lair. I also don't have a lair, and I certainly hope you're not prey. Maybe it's a good thing I don't have that strategy. Instead, I shall ramble on about some values, and you might find yourself to be resonating with them.

Alright. Let's commence. Maybe by the time I post this it'll feel ready to be read.

I should probably explicitly say I am of the submissive kind. It extends beyond sexual desires. Better said, sexual desires extend from my submissive nature. Well.. not with the regular crowd, but with a partner I like to be able to be submissive at certain times outside the bedroom. I am, however, not looking for a master. I don't feel like a slave. It's more that it feels like a part of my personality rather than a role I play. A part I wish not to hide, and to be reciprocated in the opposite direction by a partner.

In terms of talking to people, I prefer to not start off too big on mutual expectations. In the end it has to be fun to spend time together. If the puzzle pieces fall into place, that's a clear indication that said fun is achieved. If we can't provide that for each other, it is only fair to part ways.

It's worth explicitly mentioning as well that I am not looking for a one-time thing. Or multiple-time fuckery. I've found that I prefer a connection to occur without feeling like one party is waiting for the naughty bits. Don't get me wrong though, I'm plenty kinky, and that's definitely important to me, but the click in personalities should be the base of interest in my view. Therefore I need the unpressured time to grow sexual desire naturally for somebody. That said, I'm aware that I am not interested in a lifestyle without bdsm, thus my post can be found in this particular subreddit. It's a bit of a mixed message, a result of the assumed unquantifiable concept of connecting. One half of a message is the text that is written, and the other half is the text that is read. Do you catch my drift? It'd be interesting to compare my intentions behind my text to your interpretation of it.

Anyway. Maybe we can catch each other's eyes, maybe we can talk a bit. Maybe we both don't want to jump into things right away. Maybe we just want to get to know each other, and maybe we can consider options down the road as they present themselves. Maybe you also use Discord?

(Just to be extra clear, please don't talk to me about your man-sword, thank you.)