Looking for someone to get to know... share parts of our day, snuggle, watch movies, go on adventures - in and out of the bedroom. I'd prefer someone with some real-life experience not just online. But l'm willing to make exceptions if we click. I have years of experience in both bdsm and ddig. Happy to talk about kinks whenever you're comfortable. I have a FET profile I am happy to share. Looking for a relationship where kink/ ddlg is part of our dynamic, not the only thing. If you're looking for a sadist, I'm not your guy. I'm more of a daddy/soft-pleasure dom, but can get firm and rough once we're comfortable with each other. But when I know my partner enjoys the pain, I can enjoy giving it. Exactly what I'm into as far as kinks go depends a lot on what the other partner enjoys, but very open to explore with the right sub/little

I've been a teacher for the better part of 22 years, and that definitely has helped shape who I am as a dom. I want to help my sub/little be a better person. I will only make rules for that reason, never just to have rules. I am a natural caregiver, nurturer and love to cuddle. I will be your biggest cheerleader, but I also have no problem calling you out on your shit. I'd be lying if I said I didn't like some brattiness. I find that way more attractive than a princess who only knows how to say "yes sir" but I am very capable of taming a brat when necessary.

Vanilla me: 45 year old bi artist and teacher… ideally looking for something w long term potential. I'm a reading tutor, urban surrealist painter and a geek: I love art, books, music, movies/pop culture (Star Wars, Marvel, Disney, Dune). Most of my art deals with graffiti and ancient artifacts/ mythology. I love learning new things. More into cuddles and movies at home, bonfires and music… or fun dates (going to parks, festivals, museums… going on road trips to explore new places) vs a loud bar or party. I'm not a sportsball person at all

I want an in-person relationship at some point, so being within some hours of central Ohio helps a lot. I don't have an issue with long distance if there's a connection. That being said, I have *no interest * in an online-only situation. I want to spend time together, go on dates, hold hands in the park and all the fun fuckery too. I love deep conversations (sapiosexual for sure) and enjoy sending text (and or) voice messages on/off through the day. I'm very much into "good morning/good night" texts once we get to know each other.

Communication, consistency and mental health awareness are musts. There are photos of me in my profile because physical attraction matters. I'd like to see one of you sooner than later. Sorry about the length of the post, but I think it's good for everyone to have an idea of what they might be getting into. Tell me a little about ourself when you send a chat please.